Peterson addresses those who are dealing with painful experiences in their own lives. By asking sufferers if they’ve “[cleaned] up” their own life, he isn’t necessarily saying that their problems are their own fault. He’s saying that they should first deal with the problems they can fix—namely, their own wrongdoing. Starting this way is, in his opinion, the main safeguard against becoming bitter and consequently worsening one’s own sufferings. “Setting your house in order” is no guarantee you won’t suffer, but it is, in Peterson’s view, the starting point for being able to counter evil with good.