Here, Grandma confirms that she was dropping in on Margaret and her parents regularly when the family lived in New York City. And her comments about Margaret’s room and daily calls suggest that she still wants to have a large role in Margaret’s life. Though Grandma doesn’t completely respect Mom and Dad’s desire for space, she also recognizes that she can’t take their place in parenting Margaret. Notably, Margaret doesn’t see a problem with Grandma’s behavior—or even suspect that her parents might be unhappy with the arrangement.