Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.

by

Judy Blume

Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.: Chapter 3 Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
Dad buys a lawnmower at the hardware store the next day, and after supper, he goes out to mow the lawn. Suddenly, Dad yells that he’s had an accident, runs into the house, and wraps his hand in a towel. Margaret runs outside to look for the limb Dad cut off; she knows that sometimes doctors can sew them back on. When she doesn’t find anything, she heads back inside. The police are there, and Dad is lying with his head in Mom’s lap.
This passage shows that Margaret can think for herself: rather than panic, she immediately runs outside to check for a missing limb. Yet in front of Nancy, Margaret seems reluctant to think for herself, suggesting that fitting in with her peers is important to her.
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Margaret accompanies her parents to the hospital and in the car, she talks to God. She explains that Dad had an accident and that Dad is really nice—he’s a good father, even if he doesn’t have a relationship with God. She offers to do anything if God helps Dad’s hand. Fortunately, Dad didn’t cut anything off; Dr. Potter just has to give Dad eight stitches. When Dad is all fixed, Dr. Potter tells Margaret that he has a daughter who’s also almost 12, Gretchen. He promises to ask Gretchen to look for Margaret at school. When Margaret’s family gets home, Mom and Dad hire Moose to mow their lawn.
Here, Margaret’s relationship with God helps her process her fears about Dad’s injury. She also believes that she can bargain with God to prevent something worse from happening. Dr. Potter’s offer shows that Farbrook is a close-knit community; it’s not yet clear if that will be good or bad for Margaret.
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Margaret gets up early on Labor Day so she can arrange her desk before school starts. As she puts things away, she hears someone knocking at the door. Mom and Dad are still asleep, so she goes downstairs to answer the door (if it is a kidnapper, Margaret can just scream and Dad will save her). But it turns out to be Grandma and a bunch of shopping bags.
Margaret is still a kid who fully trusts her parents, hence her belief that Dad will absolutely be able to save her if there’s a kidnapper at the door. This shows how beneficial Margaret’s relationship with her parents is: she’s comfortable taking risks because she trusts that they’ll support and protect her.
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Grandma comes inside, smiles at Margaret, and then unloads bags and bags of food into the fridge—she insists that there’s no food like New York delicatessen food. Margaret doesn’t argue. Then, as Grandma makes coffee, Margaret asks how she got here. Grandma explains she took a taxi and a train—she’s “washable.” Grandma asks for a tour of the house, so Margaret shows her around. But Grandma shakes her head; she doesn’t understand why Mom and Dad decided to move to the country. Margaret insists it’s not really the country, but Grandma disagrees.
It's a mark of how much Grandma loves Margaret that she was willing to brave a taxi and a train (which she previously insisted were dirty) to come see her. However, this passage also suggests that Margaret doesn’t understand the issue between her parents and Grandma. Grandma didn’t ask to visit—and she also makes no effort to understand or respect Mom and Dad’s choice to move to Farbrook.
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Hearing water running upstairs, Margaret runs up to tell Mom and Dad about Grandma. Very excited, she asks her parents to guess who’s here, but Mom and Dad don’t sound excited when Margaret tells them. They come downstairs 10 minutes later, but they don’t seem angry and they praise Grandma for figuring out how to get to Farbrook.
Mom and Dad’s reaction to Grandma’s arrival suggests that they don’t appreciate her dropping in like this—they may see it as an invasion of their privacy. And their relationship with Grandma seems to be more reserved than their relationship with Margaret, since they don’t tell Grandma how they feel.
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Grandma follows Margaret upstairs after breakfast and comments that Margaret could use some new curtains and a bedspread. With a sigh, she says that Mom probably wants to design it herself. Sitting down, Grandma says that she and Margaret will be just as close as they’ve always been, even if she can’t visit every day anymore. She suggests that she’ll call every night, and she tells Margaret to answer the phone—Mom and Dad might not like all the calls. For the rest of the day, everyone lounges around the house. After supper, they drive Grandma back to the train station. Grandma promises that she’ll only come a couple times per month, just to check on Margaret.
Here, Grandma confirms that she was dropping in on Margaret and her parents regularly when the family lived in New York City. And her comments about Margaret’s room and daily calls suggest that she still wants to have a large role in Margaret’s life. Though Grandma doesn’t completely respect Mom and Dad’s desire for space, she also recognizes that she can’t take their place in parenting Margaret. Notably, Margaret doesn’t see a problem with Grandma’s behavior—or even suspect that her parents might be unhappy with the arrangement.
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