Becoming

by

Michelle Obama

Becoming: Chapter 23 Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
Each day, month, and year in the White House is “packed,” to the point where Michelle often finds it difficult to process in hindsight how she might visit several states in a day, or speak to twelve thousand people, or do jumping jacks with kids during the day only to put on a ballgown in the evening.
The slipperiness of time in the White House highlights the privilege of enjoying so many different experiences, but also the responsibility of those experiences and the lack of time for oneself.
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As Barack’s reelection year nears, Michelle continues to put pressure on herself not to rest. She’s “haunted” by the way she’s been criticized and works to counteract those criticisms. She rehearses her speeches again and again. She makes sure that her events run smoothly and on time. She continues to grow the reach of Let’s Move! and Joining Forces.
Although Michelle is deeply affected by her criticisms, she doesn’t let them stop her—instead, she takes them to heart and tries to grow, work harder, and do more for others.
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Michelle knows that the months of campaigning leading up to the election will be extra difficult. The summer of 2011 is “especially bruising” for Barack. A group of congressional Republicans refuses to raise the debt ceiling (a relatively routine process) until he makes a series of cuts to programs like Social Security, Medicaid, and Medicare. Meanwhile, the economy has grown, but not fully recovered—for which many people blame Barack.
Michelle explains how, despite the fact that many things are out of Barack’s control (like the Republicans’ decisions in Congress, or the speed of the recovery of the economy), he is blamed for them. This again speaks to the loneliness of the office, because Barack is often viewed as being solely responsible for the well-being of the country.
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As the summer begins, Michelle flies to South Africa with Sasha and Malia. She meets health workers, tours the Apartheid museum, and is introduced to Desmond Tutu. The most surreal moment, however, is when Nelson Mandela invites them to his home. He is ninety-two at the time and had been hospitalized earlier that year with lung issues. 
Michelle’s visit to South Africa touches on another government, whose system of Apartheid was also a deeply-rooted racist form of political oppression. But, as Michelle goes on to speak about Nelson Mandela, she sees how hope and optimism ultimately triumphed over that system.
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To Michelle, there is no one else alive who has had a more meaningful impact on the world than Mandela, who boldly challenged the all-white South African government. Mandela spent 27 years in prison for his activism and was 71 when he was released, only to then transition the country to a true democracy and become its first president. Michelle is honored to interact with a man who has so deeply inspired his country and the world. She flies home “propelled by that spirit” of tolerance and resilience and optimism. He is a lesson that progress happens slowly.
Michelle’s discussion of Mandela again shows the power of optimism in helping one achieve one’s goals and in helping a country improve as a whole—not unlike Barack’s own vision for America. Michelle’s conclusion that progress happens slowly also bolsters her at a time when it feels like the Republicans want to stop all progress for the country.
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Barack proposes three bills over the fall of 2011 to create thousands of jobs for Americans by giving states money to hire more teachers and first responders. Republicans block them each time. Senator Mitch McConnell declared to a reporter a year earlier that “the single most important thing [they] want to achieve [...] is for President Obama to be a one-term president.” Michelle finds this “demoralizing” and “infuriating.”
Michelle is perhaps particularly infuriated by Mitch McConnell’s statement (he is the Senate Minority Leader at the time), because it seems so counter to the optimism and desire for progress that Barack espouses. Instead, they simply focus on projecting all of their negative energy onto him, rather than thinking about what is best for the country.
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Despite this opposition, there is a lot to feel hopeful about. By the end of 2011, American soldiers have left Iraq and are gradually leaving Afghanistan. The Affordable Care Act has largely gone into effect. Michelle and Barack also return to the campaign trail, excited to speak with supporters as a kind of “salve” for the frustrations in Washington.
Despite the opposition, Barack is still making progress, and that progress and optimism is still resonant with many supporters that Barack and Michelle meet on his campaign trail for reelection.
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Michelle continues to do work for Let’s Move! As a result, the company behind Olive Garden and Red Lobster pledges to revamp its menus to be healthier. Michelle is also learning how to connect her message to her image, doing an on-air push-up contest with Ellen DeGeneres to raise awareness about Let’s Move! She sits down with influential “mommy bloggers” and finds ways to harness new social media tools.
Michelle takes to heart the idea that she can never stop growing and finding more ways to do fulfilling work—once again using her power and status as an icon to draw attention to issues that matter to her.
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On Election Day, November 6, 2012, Michelle is nervous that their time and effort might not have been enough. This election in particular feels “more fraught than any other,” seeming to her like a referendum on Barack’s political performance, the state of the country, and on his character. Michelle deliberately doesn’t watch the news that night, and just as she starts to panic, Barack finds her and tells her that they’ve won. Barack wins among young people, minorities, and women. His win means four more years of being symbols for the nation, responding to whatever comes at the country.
Despite the difficulties of being the First Lady and the weight on Barack’s shoulders, Michelle’s nerves about Barack not being reelected prove her dedication to improving the country in spite of the challenges. And, as Michelle goes on to demonstrate, the responsibility that she and Barack bear to the nation does not get any easier.
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Five weeks later, a gunman walks into Sandy Hook Elementary school, shooting and killing twenty first-graders and six educators. As the news unfolds, Barack asks for Michelle to come to the Oval Office—the only time in eight years he’s request her presence in the middle of a workday. They huddle silently together in sadness, Barack already briefed on the “graphic, horrid crime scene” at Sandy Hook. She knows, however, that their grief is nothing compared to the parents of the children who have died.
Perhaps there is no other time in Barack’s presidency when he feels the weight of responsibility for the country, as well as the weight of its pain, so acutely as after the Sandy Hook shooting. His need to connect with Michelle shows that, despite his usual ability to remain calm and sober during many similar tragedies, he is still just a human being trying to support a nation.
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Barack briefs the nation on what has happened, wiping away tears as he does so. He understands that there is “no solace to be had,” and that the best he can offer is his resolve to prevent more massacres by passing sensible gun control laws. For Michelle, though she has consoled many people in her four years as First Lady, she is so shaken that she cannot go to the vigil being held for the victims. Instead, she clings to her own children—the day of the vigil Sasha is performing in The Nutcracker, and Michelle is grateful to be able to watch her.
Barack’s vulnerability demonstrates how this massacre, perhaps more than any other, completely demolishes the optimism that Barack usually espouses. Instead of hope, he tries to take on the responsibility of moving the country forward in the only way he knows how: by working to prevent similar massacres from happening again.
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Michelle acknowledges that America is not a simple place, and the outcome of its stories are not always positive. Barack’s second Inauguration Day comes and goes. Later, Michelle wishes that she could have caught sight of one person in particular at the inaugural parade—a young black girl named Hadiya Pendleton who was in the marching band of a school from the South Side. Eight days after the inauguration, Hadiya is shot and killed in a public park in Chicago, mistaken for a gang member.
The gun violence that affects children is not isolated to a single incident, Michelle acknowledges, and as more and more stories and tragedies accumulate over Barack’s term, he comes to understand the gravity of the responsibility he has to try to stop this epidemic, particularly now that he has been afforded a second term.
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Michelle attends to Hadiya’s funeral, hoping that she can “turn the gaze towards the many innocent kids being gunned down in city streets almost every day,” and that this incident, coupled with Newtown, might prompt Americans to demand reasonable gun laws. Hadiya was fifteen, an honor student, and liked to tell people that she wanted to go to Harvard. Michelle acknowledges that she could have been Hadiya once, and that Hadiya could have been her. Instead, Hadiya was the thirty-sixth person in Chicago killed by gun violence that year—and it was only January 29.
The stories of Newtown and Hadiya Pendleton are tragedies that are part of a larger epidemic of gun violence wreaking havoc on the nation—a crisis that Michelle and Barack try to remedy. They are particularly disturbed by the fact that so many children are killed by gun violence amid everyday, innocent activities, such as walking in the park and going to school. Michelle acknowledges that, had she not been killed, Hadiya could have gotten the education that Michelle had and worked her way up to do something extraordinary, but her potential is squashed by guns.
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It is important to Michelle not only to be a consoler, but to try to build relationships with the people she meets, especially those who do not have access to her privilege. She keeps up her relationships with the girls from the Elizabeth Garrett Anderson School in London, bringing a group of them to visit Oxford and hosting a few of them at the White House. She starts a new initiative called Reach Higher, encouraging kids to get to and stay in college.
Michelle once again aims to invest in children, and her new initiative (like Let’s Move!) aims to support kids who did not have the same kind of supportive family that Michelle had. She tries to support them not merely in a superficial way, but in a way that will give them tangible goals and a sense of accomplishment.
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An economist from a British university later puts out a study that finding that the test performances of the students at the school jumped significantly after Michelle started to connect with them. She insists that the credit for that improvement belongs to the girls, but this also affirms the idea that “kids will invest more when they feel they’re being invested in.”
Michelle reiterates why investment is so important: it gives kids the faith in themselves to work hard and succeed when they have people behind them who believe in their success, as well.
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After Hadiya’s funeral, she directs her chief of staff Tina to rally support for gun violence prevention in Chicago. She works with Chicago business leaders, philanthropists, and mayor Rahm Emanuel to expand community programs for at-risk youth across the city. Her efforts yield 33 million dollars in pledges in a few weeks, and this prompts Michelle to return to the city.
While Congress flounders, Michelle takes matters into her own hands and pursues the things that make her feel most fulfilled. Her faith in the idea that she can make a tangible difference pays off, as she garners an enormous amount of political and monetary support for the most vulnerable populations in Chicago.
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Michelle meets students from Harper Senior High School, a school on the South Side. In the previous year, twenty-nine of the school’s current and recent students were shot, eight fatally. Urban schools are dealing with “epidemic levels of gun violence.” The students are eager to talk to her, describing a fear of gangs and violence, and some have absent or addicted parents. Nearly every kid there has lost someone they know to a bullet.
This single school’s heartbreaking statistics underscore the epidemic of gun violence occurring in the United States, and demonstrate how much the government is failing in its responsibility to protect its citizens (and particularly young people) from gun violence.
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One student asks Michelle, quite candidly, what she can do about the issue. Michelle acknowledges that Congress seems adamant about not raising the taxes required to fund an education investment, and that, even after Newtown, Congress seems determined to block measures that could help keep guns out of the wrong hands, as many representatives receive campaign funds from the National Rifle Association.
While Barack understands the responsibility of power and the debt he owes to his constituents, Michelle also makes clear that power can be corrupted, and that organizations take advantage of those who don’t prioritize their responsibility to the people they serve.
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Instead, Michelle tells the students, they should use the education they are getting to their advantage. Their stories already show they have persistence and self-reliance. Their school is filled with committed and caring adults who want to see them to succeed. And six weeks later, thanks to donations from local businesspeople, a group of these students will visit the White House and spend time at Howard University, hopefully giving them a glimpse of a path to success.
Michelle knows that she, alone, cannot remedy the issues that these students face. But she does her best to remain optimistic with them and help them see that they have access to a path that can improve their lives. She again hopes that by investing in them, and showing that they have the ability to succeed, that at least some of them will work hard and follow that path.
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