Michelle explores the complexity of race within this interaction with one of her distant cousins. Michelle acknowledges that because her family has given up some of the markers of black culture (such as a distinct way of speaking), it seems as though they are playing into a racist ideal—that they believe speaking more like a white person is better than speaking like a black person. In this way, Michelle, and later Barack, are criticized from both angles, unsure of what kind of community they fit into.