Becoming

by

Michelle Obama

Michelle and Barack’s elder daughter, born on July 4, 1998. When Malia is eighteen months old, Barack and Michelle travel to Hawaii and she spikes a high fever. Barack, despite needing to return to Illinois to vote on an important crime bill, understands his need to prioritize his family and stays to make sure Malia is okay. When Malia is young, her body mass index also rises, prompting Michelle to hire Sam Kass to cook the family healthy meals and ultimately helping to inspire Michelle to tackle the issue of childhood obesity and nutrition while in the White House. Malia is ten years old when Barack is elected president. She and her younger sister Sasha grow up in the public eye amidst a great deal of privilege, but she still find a way to maintain a sense of normalcy. As the Obamas leave the White House at the end of the book, Malia is taking a gap year before starting college at Harvard.

Malia Obama Quotes in Becoming

The Becoming quotes below are all either spoken by Malia Obama or refer to Malia Obama. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Optimism, Growth, and Fulfillment Theme Icon
).
Chapter 13 Quotes

None of this was his fault, but it wasn’t equal, either, and for any woman who lives by the mantra that equality is important, this can be a little confusing. It was me who’d alter everything, putting my passions and career dreams on hold, to fulfill this piece of our dream. I found myself in a small moment of reckoning. Did I want it? Yes, I wanted it so much. And with this, I hoisted the needle and sank it into my flesh.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama
Page Number: 189
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Chapter 14 Quotes

In the end, the year 2000 arrived without incident. After a couple of days of rest and some antibiotics, what indeed had turned out to be a nasty ear infection for Malia cleared up, returning our toddler to her normal bouncy state. Life would go on. It always did. On another perfect blue-sky day in Honolulu, we boarded a plane and flew home to Chicago, back into the chill of winter and into what for Barack was shaping up to be a political disaster.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama
Page Number: 196
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Somewhat brazenly, I suppose, I laid all this out in my interview with Michael Riordan, the hospital’s new president. I even brought three-month-old Sasha along with me, too. I can’t remember the circumstances exactly, whether I couldn’t find a babysitter that day or whether I’d even bothered to try. Sasha was little, though, and still needed a lot from me. She was a fact of my life—a cute, burbling, impossible-to-ignore fact— and something compelled me almost literally to put her on the table for this discussion. Here is me, I was saying, and here also is my baby.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 196
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Chapter 20 Quotes

I understood how lucky we were to be living this way. The master suite in the residence was bigger than the entirety of the upstairs apartment my family had shared when I was growing up on Euclid Avenue. There was a Monet painting hanging outside my bedroom door and a bronze Degas sculpture in our dining room. I was a child of the South Side, now raising daughters who slept in rooms designed by a high-end interior decorator and who could custom order their breakfast from a chef.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 305
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Chapter 21 Quotes

We were taking on a huge issue, but now I had the benefit of operating from a huge platform. I was beginning to realize that all the things that felt odd to me about my new existence—the strangeness of fame, the hawkeyed attention paid to my image, the vagueness of my job description—could be marshaled in service of real goals. I was energized. Here, finally, was a way to show my full self.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Malia Obama, Sam Kass
Related Symbols: The Garden
Page Number: 339
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 24 Quotes

He was a good father, dialed in and consistent in ways his own father had never been, but there were also things he’d sacrificed along the way. He’d entered into parenthood as a politician. His constituents and their needs had been with us all along.

It had to hurt a little bit, realizing he was so close to having more freedom and more time, just as our daughters were beginning to step away. But we had to let them go. The future was theirs, just as it should be.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 406
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Epilogue Quotes

For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end. I became a mother, but I still have a lot to learn from and give to my children. I became a wife, but I continue to adapt to and be humbled by what it means to truly love and make a life with another person. I have become, by certain measures, a person of power, and yet there are moments still when I feel insecure or unheard.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 406
Explanation and Analysis:
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Malia Obama Quotes in Becoming

The Becoming quotes below are all either spoken by Malia Obama or refer to Malia Obama. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Optimism, Growth, and Fulfillment Theme Icon
).
Chapter 13 Quotes

None of this was his fault, but it wasn’t equal, either, and for any woman who lives by the mantra that equality is important, this can be a little confusing. It was me who’d alter everything, putting my passions and career dreams on hold, to fulfill this piece of our dream. I found myself in a small moment of reckoning. Did I want it? Yes, I wanted it so much. And with this, I hoisted the needle and sank it into my flesh.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama
Page Number: 189
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 14 Quotes

In the end, the year 2000 arrived without incident. After a couple of days of rest and some antibiotics, what indeed had turned out to be a nasty ear infection for Malia cleared up, returning our toddler to her normal bouncy state. Life would go on. It always did. On another perfect blue-sky day in Honolulu, we boarded a plane and flew home to Chicago, back into the chill of winter and into what for Barack was shaping up to be a political disaster.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama
Page Number: 196
Explanation and Analysis:

Somewhat brazenly, I suppose, I laid all this out in my interview with Michael Riordan, the hospital’s new president. I even brought three-month-old Sasha along with me, too. I can’t remember the circumstances exactly, whether I couldn’t find a babysitter that day or whether I’d even bothered to try. Sasha was little, though, and still needed a lot from me. She was a fact of my life—a cute, burbling, impossible-to-ignore fact— and something compelled me almost literally to put her on the table for this discussion. Here is me, I was saying, and here also is my baby.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 196
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 20 Quotes

I understood how lucky we were to be living this way. The master suite in the residence was bigger than the entirety of the upstairs apartment my family had shared when I was growing up on Euclid Avenue. There was a Monet painting hanging outside my bedroom door and a bronze Degas sculpture in our dining room. I was a child of the South Side, now raising daughters who slept in rooms designed by a high-end interior decorator and who could custom order their breakfast from a chef.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 305
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 21 Quotes

We were taking on a huge issue, but now I had the benefit of operating from a huge platform. I was beginning to realize that all the things that felt odd to me about my new existence—the strangeness of fame, the hawkeyed attention paid to my image, the vagueness of my job description—could be marshaled in service of real goals. I was energized. Here, finally, was a way to show my full self.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Malia Obama, Sam Kass
Related Symbols: The Garden
Page Number: 339
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 24 Quotes

He was a good father, dialed in and consistent in ways his own father had never been, but there were also things he’d sacrificed along the way. He’d entered into parenthood as a politician. His constituents and their needs had been with us all along.

It had to hurt a little bit, realizing he was so close to having more freedom and more time, just as our daughters were beginning to step away. But we had to let them go. The future was theirs, just as it should be.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 406
Explanation and Analysis:
Epilogue Quotes

For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end. I became a mother, but I still have a lot to learn from and give to my children. I became a wife, but I continue to adapt to and be humbled by what it means to truly love and make a life with another person. I have become, by certain measures, a person of power, and yet there are moments still when I feel insecure or unheard.

Related Characters: Michelle Obama (speaker), Barack Obama, Malia Obama, Sasha Obama
Page Number: 406
Explanation and Analysis: