Jende is skeptical of the welcome that Neni, Liomi, and Timba got at the church. However, given that he’s expressed greater ease than Neni in predominately white environments, his reaction suggests that he’s threatened by the prospect of his wife finding friendships and a sense of community outside of him and their West African friends. It suggests that, even if Jende is deported, Neni and his children would be able to continue on in America and would thrive happily without him. He also feels impotent due to his inability to fulfill his promises to his family.