In Boy Overboard, Jamal and his family are acutely aware of the fact that girls and women don’t have the same rights or opportunities as boys and men in Afghanistan. The government forbids girls from receiving education, leaving the house without a male escort, and most annoyingly for Jamal’s sister Bibi, playing football (soccer). Boy Overboard makes it clear that these rules are nonsensical: as Bibi and Rashida, an older girl Jamal meets on the ship, demonstrate, girls are just as intelligent and capable as their male counterparts. But though Bibi and Jamal resent the implication that girls are lesser than boys, they nevertheless must navigate a society—both in Afghanistan and on the ship to Australia—that discriminates against girls and women, something that in turn makes women particularly vulnerable to violence.
Bibi’s journey highlights the injustice of gender discrimination. Not only is it unfair, but it also makes inaccurate assumptions about the innate abilities and dispositions of boys and girls. For instance, Bibi is the exact opposite of what the conservative Afghan government thinks a girl should be––instead of docile and obedient, Bibi is headstrong, outspoken, and independent. She is also a talented athlete: despite stereotypes around girls’ athletic abilities, she proves herself to be an excellent football player. In fact, she’s even better than her brother. As such, she often forgets or ignores the rules the Afghan government places on girls, which puts her and her family in danger. Later, Jamal and Bibi discover that this danger doesn’t end when they leave Afghanistan: when pirates in league with the smugglers board Jamal and Bibi’s ship and begin taking women on board with them, Jamal immediately recognizes that his sister and Rashida are in danger. By disguising them as boys and beginning a soccer game (playing on the stereotype that girls aren’t good at sports), Jamal is able to keep his family and friend group together. Thus, while Boy Overboard consistently shows that gender roles aren’t innate and often harm girls and women, it also suggests that playing into them can, in some cases, offer safety and protection.
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Gender and Discrimination Quotes in Boy Overboard
The others are still backing away and looking at me and I realize I have to do something. This person who is putting us all in danger is a member of my family.
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Bibi must have forgotten that girls aren’t allowed to leave the house without a parent. She must have forgotten that females have to keep their face covered at all times out of doors. And it must have slipped her mind that girls playing football is completely, totally and absolutely against the law.
“I hate this whole country,” says Bibi after a while. “This country is camel snot.”
I’m shocked.
Nine-year-old kids shouldn’t hate their country. They should love their country and want it to do well in the World Cup and earn the respect of other nations so they’ll stop bombing us.
A wonderful thought hits me. We can do it together. We can improve out skills and impress the government and start a national team and win the hearts of Afghans together. When the government sees how talented Bibi is, they’ll change their minds about girls playing football. They’ll have to.
‘If a person goes somewhere else and becomes a huge football star,’ I say to Yusuf’s grandfather in my imagination, ‘and so does his sister, and they play regularly on TV, and then they come back to Afghanistan with their parents, do you think they’d be popular enough to help form a new government? A kind and fair government that wouldn’t murder anyone?’
And freeze in shock myself. It’s a teenage girl. All she’s wearing is shorts and a T-shirt with a sparkly pattern on the front. Her arms are bare. Her legs are bare. Her hair is completely uncovered and sticking out in all directions. She’s wearing makeup. She’s got black stuff on her eyelashes and her lips are green. I’ve never seen anything like her in my life.
A pirate stops right in front of us, studying the ball as it goes back and forward. I pray he doesn’t know how brilliant females can be at football. I pray he assumes anyone with knee skills like Bibi and Rashida must be male.
A lot of the men down here are looking at her. They can’t believe a female can keep going this long. They don’t understand how she can do it. I know how. Her father’s a baker.