Eleanor and Park

by

Rainbow Rowell

Eleanor and Park: Chapter 22 Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
The next morning on the bus, Eleanor is saddened when Park hardly even looks at her—and doesn’t hold her hand. Eleanor tugs at the edge of Park’s t-shirt and asks if he’s mad at her. He says that he is, because she “decided to leave [his] house as soon as [she] walked in.” Eleanor admits that she felt out of place at Park’s house, and was worried he didn’t want her there. Park doesn’t immediately tell Eleanor she’s wrong, and she realizes that she’s “at least a little bit right.” Park is about to say something back, but Eleanor is distracted when the kids at the back of the bus—all dressed in red to celebrate a big University of Nebraska football game later that day—begin chanting “Go. Big. Red.
Park calls Eleanor out on the bus ride by forcing her to confront her self-defeating behavior and her fear of being rejected. Eleanor is able to own up to her behavior, but she also forces Park to admit to his own shameful feelings of embarrassment and uncertainty about their relationship. Eleanor and Park are trying to better one another—they want to make sure that not only are they each treating the other well, but that the other person is treating themselves with respect and dignity, too.
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When the bus pulls up at school, Park is seething mad, and begins approaching Steve, the originator of the chant, and all his buddies. Eleanor holds him back, but Park says he’s tired of the popular kids embarrassing Eleanor. Eleanor asks if what Park really means to say is that he’s sick of them embarrassing him. Eleanor begs Park not to get into a fight on her behalf, but when Steve calls out another taunt, Park flies at him. Eleanor is surprised to see fight hold his own even against the giant Steve, and eventually let loose a taekwondo kick that leaves Steve bleeding from the mouth. As teachers arrive to break up the fight, a still-furious Park warns Steve to leave “[his] girlfriend” alone.
Park has been dealing with latent feelings of embarrassment about Eleanor since the first day of school. He has been afraid of his classmates’ gossip about them, nervous about how his parents will react to Eleanor, and ashamed of his own desire to retain his limited popularity even as he judges Eleanor for her wild outfits and apathetic attitude. Now, though, he pushes all of that aside and decides, once and for all, to stand up for his relationship to Eleanor—to publicly declare her his girlfriend and to punish those who would seek to hurt her.
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As teachers drag Park and Steve away to be disciplined, Eleanor is stunned and unsure of how she should feel—proud, worried, or embarrassed herself. As the day goes by, Eleanor grows increasingly worried about Park, as he isn’t in either of their shared classes or on the bus after school, and neither is Steve. All day, though, Eleanor notices that kids throughout school are comparing Park’s fighting skills to David Carradine and Chuck Norris. At the end of the school day, Eleanor gets off the bus at Park’s stop to go visit him.
Eleanor doesn’t know whether to feel ashamed or proud. There’s a part of her that is waiting to see how to react based on the judgment of her classmates. As she hears whispers of other students comparing Park to martial-arts legends, she realizes that maybe Park has given both their reputations a boost.
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The narrative switches to Park’s point of view. After the fight, he is suspended for two days. Park’s mother is so angry that his father has to come pick him up from school; Jamie is shocked to see Park with a black eye and a broken nose. On the way home, though, Jamie asks Park all about the fight—and what taekwondo moves he used—and the two of them have a rare moment of bonding. Back at home, though, Mindy is so irate that she calls Park a “white-trash monkey” and grounds him until further notice.
 Though Jamie is proud of Park both for standing his ground against a bully and for utilizing his taekwondo moves in everyday life, Mindy is horrified by Park’s display of violence. Park himself doesn’t feel any shame about the incident—in fact, he feels tough and validated.
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The narrative switches to Eleanor’s point of view as she rings the doorbell at Park’s house after school. Park’s imposing father, Jamie—who looks like Tom Selleck’s character on Magnum, P.I.—answers the door. She has some of Park’s assignments from school to drop off, so Jamie lets her in to see Park. Eleanor heads up to Park’s room and quietly opens the door. He is lying in bed, and his face is swollen and discolored. Eleanor rushes over to sit with Park, feeling a pang of sadness and guilt. As she touches Park’s face, Park says he’s worried that he’s ruined things between them—Eleanor retorts that the only thing Park has ruined is his face. Eleanor urges Park not to get into another fight on her behalf ever again—she promises that as long as Park likes her, it doesn’t matter to her what anyone else thinks.
Eleanor is truly grateful that Park stood up for her, and attempts to show him during this visit. At the same time, she doesn’t want him ruining his social life or hurting himself on her behalf. Eleanor isn’t like Park—she doesn’t have the same desperate need for approval he does—and when she tells him that she genuinely doesn’t care what anyone else thinks of her or her relationship with Park, she means it. He gives her all the confidence she needs.
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The next day on the bus, no one bothers Eleanor or makes fun of her at all—though after gym class, she finds another lewd message (“pop that cherry”) scrawled on her textbook cover. Eleanor rips the whole thing off in anger.
Eleanor cannot seem to shake the bullies that dog her at every turn. She is filled with shame and self-loathing over the constant abuse, even as she experiences new levels of happiness and confidence in her relationship with Park.
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That afternoon, back at the house, Eleanor is surprised to find two new pairs of jeans folded on her bed—her mother has been to Goodwill. The jeans are a little baggy, but they’re less threadbare than her other pairs. Eleanor marvels at her mother’s ability to find and spend money in secret—she thinks it’s as if her mother is “keeping them all alive behind [Richie’s] back.” 
Eleanor doesn’t understand why her mother has made the choices she’s made, or why she lets her children suffer in the name of preserving a relationship that’s so painful—but doesn’t have the power to challenge her mother, and is forced to take small bits of affection and rare gifts whenever they come. 
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