Eleanor and Park

by

Rainbow Rowell

Eleanor and Park: Chapter 35 Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
One night, as Eleanor hurries to leave the Sheridans’ house before dinner, she runs into Park’s dad, Jamie, on the front steps. She greets him quickly and hurries past him, but he calls out to her. He tells her that he’s “getting tired” of asking her to stay for dinner—he tells her she is welcome anytime, and has a standing invitation. Eleanor is confused, but then Jamie goes on: he says that he knows Richie, and the two of them grew up together. He says that he knows Richie isn’t “easy” to be around, and that Eleanor should feel comfortable spending as much time as she needs to with Park and the rest of the family. Eleanor smiles and follows Jamie back inside the house.
Though Jamie and Park are often at odds, in this passage, Jamie offers Eleanor a kind of grace and understanding that even Park hasn’t been able to give her. Jamie knows all about Richie—and though he doesn’t elaborate, the simple fact that Jamie is on Eleanor’s side against her stepfather makes her feel validated and supported, more so than she does by her own family.
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The narrative switches to Park’s point of view. Even though he and Eleanor spend every afternoon and evening together, it “still [isn’t] enough.” Park wishes the two of them could be alone together, but every time Park suggests spending time up in his room—albeit with the door open—Eleanor insists she doesn’t want his family to think she’s “slutty.”
Eleanor and Park can’t get enough of one another, but they feel pressure to resist their physical desire for one another even as their romantic and sexual feelings intensify.
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One evening, as Eleanor and Mindy are discussing Mindy’s love of hairdressing, Mindy suggests giving Eleanor a makeover. Eleanor is reluctant, but Mindy insists she won’t give Eleanor a noticeable haircut or put on anything that can’t be washed off. Eleanor agrees, and Mindy leads her out to the makeshift salon in the garage.
Eleanor hates all things related to the farce of image, beauty, and self-improvement. She has been determine throughout the entire novel not to change her appearance for anyone—but now, her desire to be polite and respectful weighs out her allegiance to her carefully curated image.
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As Mindy begins giving Eleanor a makeover, Park works as his mother’s assistant. Eleanor is slightly embarrassed, but because she is the Sheridans’ guest, she is determined to keep her mouth shut and let Mindy have her fun. Mindy washes Eleanor’s hair and treats it for dryness with a hot-oil pack, then does Eleanor’s makeup. Mindy demonstrates a couple of the eye pencils on a reluctant Park, and Eleanor admires how “dangerous” Park looks with the makeup around his eyes. Mindy blows Eleanor’s hair dry with a diffuser while Eleanor and Park play rock-paper-scissors to pass the time.
As with all things in her life, Eleanor finds that the embarrassment of getting a makeover is easier to endure with Park by her side. Their connection—and the connection it has allowed Eleanor to feel to her innermost self—allows her to get through the makeover without feeling like she’s totally surrendered her sense of self.
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When the makeover is done, Mindy urges Eleanor to look at how pretty she is in the mirror, but Eleanor feels like she is about to cry. She is embarrassed, she tells Park when Mindy steps out for a second, to have everyone look at her. Park points out that he’s always looking at Eleanor—she says she wishes he’d stop. Eleanor looks at herself in the mirror, and though she hates the “fake face” Mindy has given her, she tries her best to stay calm. When Park admires Eleanor’s beauty, she accuses him of liking her better as a “different person,” but Park insists Eleanor looks just like herself but “with the volume turned up.”
Though Eleanor is constantly insecure that Park will snub or reject the real her, Park reminds her every time she expresses that fear that he loves her deeply for who she is. Park loves this version of Eleanor not because it’s different, but because it allows her to look even more authentically like who she is on the inside.
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The narrative switches to Park’s point of view. After Eleanor’s makeover is done, he can’t figure out “why it upset[s] her so much” to look a little different—he wonders if there’s a part of Eleanor that wants to look ugly. The next morning, as Park gets ready for school, he puts some of his mother’s eyeliner on, and surprisingly feels he looks “more masculine” than he usually does. He leaves his hair wild rather than combing it, and heads down for breakfast—where his father “flip[s]” out over Park’s new look. Though Jamie demands Park comb his hair and wash the makeup off his face, Park ignores his father, insisting that “Plenty of guys,” like David Bowie, wear makeup. Mindy tells Jamie to lay off Park and let him make his own decisions, and Park takes advantage of the opportunity to rush out the door.
Eleanor’s reluctant experimentation with how she presents herself to the world opens up a curiosity in Park about what would happen if he altered the way he looked, too. Park seems to want to get in touch with a deeper part of himself—an instinct surely born of the security, confidence, and self-worth his relationship with Eleanor is allowing him to experience for the first time.
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When Park gets on the bus, he makes eye contact with Steve—who immediately asks if he’s wearing makeup. Park says he is, and braces for a taunt or a physical assault—but instead, Steve tells him he looks “kind of […] like Ozzy [Osbourne]” and then goes back to talking with Tina. When Eleanor gets on the bus and sees Park, she rushes over to their seat—and kisses him hard.
Though Park’s father suggested that Park’s effeminate look would get him in trouble at school, Park is relieved to find that even the school bullies don’t care—and Eleanor is excited by his new vibe.
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