So far, God has deemed everything in creation “very good,” but the man’s solitude is the first thing that is
not good. The Hebrew word that’s used for partner is
ezer, a word which implies that the man lacks some necessary companionship. Most scholars take issue with the common translation of the word
ezer to the word “helper,” which has connotations of inferiority. But in Hebrew, the word
ezer actually means perfect companionship and help that comes from a place of strength, more like a savior or a rescuer than an assistant. This suggests that the woman isn’t intended to serve the man, but to serve
alongside him. Throughout the Old Testament, the word
ezer appears 21 times, 16 of which refer to God himself, which scholars see as further proof that God intended the woman to be the man’s perfect match, like a puzzle piece, rather than his administrative assistant.