Roy seems to suspect that since his mom lost a very wanted pregnancy years ago, it’s even more difficult than it might be otherwise for her to hear about a mother not wanting her child. Again, this reflects Roy’s close and caring relationship with his parents. But though Roy is trying to care for his mom a bit here, he also wants her approval. This is why he asks what he should do about the owls. However, as Roy sees it, his mom has essentially already given him permission to do whatever he thinks is the morally right thing to do—even if it might not be strictly legal or honest.