Machado’s mother often reminds Machado during her childhood that her personal space doesn’t actually belong to her—it’s something her parents grant her. Machado partly attributes her lack of self-advocacy in relationships to this attitude. Machado’s mother’s decision, along with Machado’s father, to remove Machado’s bedroom doorknob demonstrates how quickly and easily one’s sense of safety can vanish, and also suggests that even the people one is closest to can make one feel unsafe.