Elsie Flood was Mary’s grandmother’s niece. Elsie was one of the Lakota traditionalists who had an enormous influence on Mary, who sought her out to learn more about Lakota culture. Elsie was a “turtle woman,” or a resilient and independent person. She was also a medicine woman and a talented artist. In 1976, her naked and beaten body was found in her home. Her violent death, and the fact that the state never investigated her murder, speaks to the U.S. government and white society’s. misogyny and racism. Mary still mourns the loss of the Elsie, with whom so much traditional wisdom died.