Upon returning home, Ralph’s mother attempts to restore a sense of normalcy and balance to her children’s lives. A practical woman, she rejects self-pity and tries to instill an optimistic, forward-looking mindset. As part of this, she symbolically transfers her husband’s status as head of the family to Ralph, asking him to say grace just like his father used to. As such, Ralph effectively takes over for his father, signaling his ascension into adulthood.