When he defected, Cunxin traded the rigid, traditional, and hierarchal culture of his childhood for a life of freedom and self-determination in America. Yet, his anger with Elizabeth seems to grow, at least in part, from her failure to tend to him the way Niang tended to Dia during Cunxin’s childhood. Without Cunxin’s openly acknowledging it, this section suggests his subconscious expectation on his part that Elizabeth will hew more closely to the role of a Chinese wife and have the limitless devotion Niang described in her story about Wang Shileong and the Great Wall.