Mother to Mother

by

Sindiwe Magona

A healer or medicine woman.

Sangoma Quotes in Mother to Mother

The Mother to Mother quotes below are all either spoken by Sangoma or refer to Sangoma. For each quote, you can also see the other terms and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
The Legacy of Colonialism and Apartheid Theme Icon
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Chapter 8 Quotes

“For shoulders so tender, so far from fully formed, great is the weight you bear. You hold yourself and you are held ...” — she paused before saying the word ... “responsible.” She said the word with a sigh, as though she were a judge sending a young person, a first offender, to the gallows. Sending him there because of some terrible and overwhelming evidence she dared disregard only at her own peril.

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“Mama,” she said, her voice once more her own. “You must free this your son.”

I said I didn’t understand.

“You know what I’m talking about. Go home. Think about your child. Children are very sensitive. They know when we hate them.” After a small pause she shook her head. “Perhaps, I use a word too strong ... but, resentment can be worse than hate.”

It was my turn to gasp. My whole being turned to ice. Tears pricked my eyes. I felt my father-in-law’s eyes on me and turned mine his way. His brow was gathered, his eyes wide with unasked questions. But the sangoma wasn’t done.

“But to come back to why you have come to see me,” she broke our locked eyes, “this child has seen great evil in his short little life. He needs all the love and understanding he can get.”

Related Characters: Mandisa (speaker), Mxolisi, China, China’s Father, Zazi and Mzamo
Page Number: 154
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Sangoma Term Timeline in Mother to Mother

The timeline below shows where the term Sangoma appears in Mother to Mother. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Chapter 8
Family, Tradition, and Obligation Theme Icon
China’s father suggests bringing Mxolisi to a sangoma, an indigenous healer. Mandisa, Mxolisi, and China’s father all go together. The sangoma has an... (full context)
Family, Tradition, and Obligation Theme Icon
...who offers to walk her home. She doesn’t need help, but remembers Nono and the sangoma and allows him to walk her home anyway. She sleeps with him that night, and... (full context)