Several times throughout Normal People, Connell and Marianne talk about nude photos, which come to symbolize the fraught power dynamics that can sometimes crop up in romantic relationships. When Connell and Marianne are unofficially dating during their first year of college, Connell asks if Marianne would ever consider sending him naked pictures of herself. Before she can answer, he adds that he would delete them, which confuses her: why would he want to delete them? He explains that there’s a certain etiquette surrounding the use of nude photos, saying that it’s a common courtesy for the recipient to delete them to protect the other person’s privacy. He’s referring to the unfortunate fact that some people use nude photos in ways that violate the subject’s privacy, like when Rob showed Connell and Eric naked pictures of his date at the Debs dance. Similarly, in the aftermath of Marianne and Jamie’s breakup, a rumor goes around that there are naked pictures of Marianne on the internet. It’s unclear if Jamie circulated these pictures or if he just spread the rumor to humiliate Marianne. Either way, though, he uses the general idea to exact revenge on Marianne for breaking up with him. In this way, nude photos take on extra significance in the novel, representing how difficult and even frightening it can be to trust and make oneself vulnerable to a romantic partner. And by that same token, Connell’s promise to delete Marianne’s naked pictures symbolizes his discomfort with the idea of having any kind of power over her in their relationship.
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7. Three Months Later (November 2011)
...looked down on them for being inebriated. At one point Rob showed him and Eric naked pictures of his date. Eric laughed, but Connell pointed out that it was a bit “fucked-up”...
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10. Three Months Later (July 2012)
...he wanted to see other people. Before that, Connell had asked Marianne to send him naked pictures of herself. He promised to delete them, but she didn’t understand why he wouldn’t want...
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14. Five Months Later (December 2013)
Marianne goes to Lukas’s apartment so he can take nude pictures of her. As he fiddles with his camera, she thinks about the falling out she...
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15. Three Months Later (March 2014)
...wonders if Marianne knows the things people have been saying about her, like that there’s naked pictures of her on the internet—he’s not sure if this is true. As Connell talks to...
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