One Day

by

David Nicholls

One Day: Chapter 5 Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
Wednesday, July 15, 1992. Emma and Dexter are on Day 2 of a trip to the Dodecanese Islands in the Aegean Sea. Neither wants a serious relationship at the moment, with Emma having gotten out of a relationship with a bicycle repairman and Dexter having dumped Naomi as well as several other women,  currently being only casually involved with a former model named Ingrid. Dexter and Emma have agreed to what they call The Rules of Engagement for having a platonic trip, which includes things like separate rooms and no nudity.
The Rules of Engagement, while started partially as an inside joke between Dexter and Emma, also represents a step forward for them as they attempt to define their loose relationship more deliberately, laying out how to keep it a platonic one.  Still, this new sense of purpose and direction is offset by the fact that Emma is still chasing unsatisfying relationships like her romance with the bike repairman, while Dexter remains hesitant to settle down at all.
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Dexter and Emma are reading on a ferry, but Dexter gives up, saying he’s struggling with Lolita, which Emma gave him. Just then a girl and her boyfriend come over and say they recognize Dexter from television, on the show largin’ it. Dexter gets a little embarrassed and tries to introduce Emma too, saying she works part time at Amnesty International now and part time at a restaurant while training to be a teacher. Afterwards, Emma accuses Dexter of putting on a Cockney accent on television and for the tourists who recognized him. Dexter says he has to use an accent or else it alienates his audience.
Lolita is perhaps a slightly passive-aggressive gift from Emma, since it’s about an older man who becomes sexually obsessed with a 12-year-old girl (Dexter hasn’t done this but has shown an interest in younger women, like his student Tove in Rome). Dexter’s exaggerated accent to appeal to viewers shows how he is becoming more conscious of class differences, although rather than seeking political solutions like Emma, he finds ways to use these class markers to his advantage.
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Dexter asks Emma what she thinks of the TV show he’s a presenter on. She says it’s not for her but that he’s good at what he does. The two of them disembark, and as Dexter goes to find a place to stay, Emma reminds him they need two rooms, per the Rules. Dexter finds a place with multiple rooms, but he lies when he returns to Emma, saying he could only find a place with one room and one bed. He reassures her that it’s a big one. Emma hesitates but then accepts.
Dexter’s lie to Emma about how there’s only one room available to rent shows the lengths he will go to in order to hide his true feelings and desires from her. The Rules, which seemed to offer order to Dexter and Emma’s relationship, become just another thing in Dexter’s life that he tries to avoid rather than confronting directly.
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Emma sees the room, which has a balcony, and loves it. She tries to appear sophisticated and unimpressed. She goes into the bathroom and struggles with her new contact lenses, which she’s gotten to replace her glasses. She used to believe that anything other than wearing National Health spectacles was vanity but eventually gave in to Dexter’s nagging to get contacts. As Dexter and Emma get ready to go to the beach, he makes fun of how much sunscreen she puts on. He helps her put sunscreen on her back, commenting on how low the back of her one-piece suit is scooped. She notices the yin-yang tattoo he got in India.
Emma’s decision to get contact lenses shows how she is trying to be more like the type of person Dexter would like (since he never much liked the glasses that she wore in earlier chapters). This gesture can be interpreted in two different ways. On the one hand, Emma is taking pride in her personal appearance and trying to be flexible to please others rather than always sticking to her ideals. At the same time, however, this gesture could be interpreted as her giving in to Dexter’s influence and taking on some of his superficial qualities.
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On the beach, Dexter and Emma note that many people are nude, and some are even barbecuing without clothes on. Dexter suggests that maybe they should do the same to be polite, but Emma says it’s against the Rules. Dexter says those are just guidelines, and it’s not like he hasn’t seen her nude before. Emma refuses but says that Dexter is funny and should be on television.
Once again, Dexter is  afraid to voice aloud what he really wants (Emma nude), so he uses jokes and references to the Rules to try to communicate indirectly. Emma similarly tries to avoid having a serious conversation with Dexter about their relationship, instead making sarcastic remarks as she often does. This shows how in spite of how their vacation is successful in many ways, they still struggle to be honest with each other.
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Dexter and Emma go back to their room. He showers first. Emma reads, then goes inside to get a beer. She sees the that bathroom door is open and watches the tanned Dexter shower with his back turned. When he suddenly turns to face her, she drops the beer. She showers, then meets Dexter on the balcony. She suggests maybe just staying where they are instead of island-hopping. They decide to go to dinner.
Despite the Rules, Emma can’t help being physically attracted to Dexter, as this passage shows. The chapter as a whole raises the question of to what extent it’s possible to control romantic feelings versus to what extent there is something mysterious and uncontrollable about them, ultimately taking the latter view.
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At dinner, Emma suggests that so they don’t run out of things to talk about on vacation, each night they should reveal a secret. She makes Dexter go first. Dexter talks about kissing a man at a gay club he went to with Ingrid recently. He didn’t mind it but still has little interest in men. When it’s Emma’s turn, she admits that she used to have a crush on Dexter back at university, before they even properly met. Dexter says that doesn’t count—it’s not a secret because Tilly already told him back then. He asks whatever happened to that crush, and Emma says that meeting Dexter cured it.
Dexter’s kissing of a man, despite the fact that he doesn’t seem to be very sexually interested in men, reflects the carefree but also careless way that Dexter goes about starting and ending relationships. Dexter further shows his inability to engage with his feelings when he pretends that he doesn’t care that Emma used to like him back at university.
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Drunk, Emma and Dexter leave dinner to go walking. The sea is calm, and Dexter suggests swimming. Since they don’t have swimsuits, Emma accuses him of trying to trick her into skinny-dipping, but she joins him when he undresses and goes into the water. Dexter worries briefly that he’s on the verge of a “Situation,” since he’s still sort of seeing Ingrid and since Emma is possibly his best friend. Still, he apologizes for being glib back at the restaurant. He says he liked her romantically back at university too, although he adds that almost everyone is his type. He thinks at the time he wasn’t ready for the sort of serious relationship Emma would want.
The fact that Emma and Dexter decide to go skinny-dipping, even though it’s technically against their Rules, shows how they are learning that their relationship with each other—and human relationships in general—might be too complicated to fit neatly within the narrow scope that they’ve defined. Dexter’s fear of a “Situation” seems to reflect low self-esteem—just as Emma often fears that she isn’t Dexter’s type of person, he fears that he can’t give her the type of relationship that she wants.
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Dexter offers Emma a secret no-strings-attached fling. Emma is angry and almost amused at his audacity. She wants to shout at him but instead just pushes his head under the water. Dexter takes this as a no. Emma says the time for that has passed and if a person feels the need to keep something a secret, maybe that thing is a mistake in the first place.
Although Dexter is beginning to have feelings for Emma, he resists them by trying to treat her the way he treats the other women in his life, as a temporary relationship. Emma’s lack of anger at the suggestion shows how she understands Dexter and perhaps can even sympathize with his fear of intimacy.
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When they get back to shore, Dexter sees someone stealing his clothes. He complains that they were expensive, but Emma finds it funny. She finds a blue plastic sack for him to wear temporarily. They head back to their room. As they lie in bed, Emma says that she’s been having a good trip so far, even if they did break most of their Rules. They say goodnight, and Dexter thinks about all the possibilities of what could happen over the remaining eight days of their trip.
Dexter and Emma begin to get over their fear of making mistakes. Dexter learns that even if he does something stupid like losing his expensive clothes, things can turn out OK in the end. Meanwhile, Emma learns that sometimes it is OK to break the Rules, which means that she can also be flexible with some of her other ideals without having to abandon them.
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