The story Mr. Wilfer tells about how old Mr. Harmon chose Bella to be John’s wife is yet another example of how old Mr. Harmon was eccentric. On the one hand, this passage shows how old Mr. Harmon was controlling and wanted to set the course of his son’s life even when John was still young. Interestingly, as bizarre as his process of picking Bella was, old Mr. Harmon attempted to pick a wife for his son based on her character, not on wealth or family connections.