Our Mutual Friend

Our Mutual Friend

by

Charles Dickens

Lizzie Hexam (later Wrayburn) is the beautiful daughter of the waterman Gaffer Hexam who follows in her father’s footsteps of learning to scavenge from the River Thames. Although Lizzie tries to be a loyal daughter, she feels stifled by her father’s insistence that education is a waste of time. Despite her loyalty to her father, she helps her brother, Charley, get away from Gaffer so that he can get an education with Bradley Headstone. After Gaffer dies, Lizzie struggles to figure out what to do with her life, eventually living with the doll dressmaker Jenny Wren. This is where both Eugene and Headstone find her, taking an interest in “tutoring” her that ultimately turns out to be a romantic interest in her. Throughout everything, Lizzie is always selfless and intelligent, with few of the humorous flaws that distinguish the other lower-class characters in the novel. Her marriage to Eugene, who is of a much higher social rank, shows how character is more important in marriage than wealth, although the fact that Lizzie and Eugene have to move to one of Britain’s colonies to escape the stigma of their marriage shows that going against social customs could have consequences.

Lizzie Quotes in Our Mutual Friend

The Our Mutual Friend quotes below are all either spoken by Lizzie or refer to Lizzie . For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Book 1, Chapter 1 Quotes

In these times of ours, though concerning the exact year there is no need to be precise, a boat of dirty and disreputable appearance, with two figures in it, floated on the Thames, between Southwark bridge which is of iron, and London Bridge which is of stone, as an autumn evening was closing in.

Related Characters: John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Lizzie , Gaffer Hexam, George Radfoot
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 13
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 1, Chapter 3 Quotes

There was a curious mixture in the boy, of uncompleted savagery, and uncompleted civilization. His voice was hoarse and coarse, and his face was coarse, and his stunted figure was coarse; but he was cleaner than other boys of his type; and his writing, though large and round, was good; and he glanced at the backs of the books, with an awakened curiosity that went below the binding. No one who can read, ever looks at a book, even unopened on a shelf, like one who cannot.

Related Characters: John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Lizzie , Mortimer Lightwood, Gaffer Hexam, Charley Hexam, Old Mr. Harmon
Page Number: 28
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 1, Chapter 14 Quotes

They ran to the rope, leaving him gasping there. Soon, the form of the bird of prey, dead some hours, lay stretched upon the shore, with a new blast storming at it and clotting the wet hair with hail-stones.

Father, was that you calling me? Father! I thought I heard you call me twice before! Words never to be answered, those, upon the earth-side of the grave. The wind sweeps jeeringly over Father, whips him with the frayed ends of his dress and his jagged hair, tries to turn him where he lies stark on his back, and force his face towards the rising sun, that he may be shamed the more.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Mortimer Lightwood, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood, Gaffer Hexam, The Inspector
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 175
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 2, Chapter 1 Quotes

It was a school for all ages, and for both sexes. The latter were kept apart, and the former were partitioned off into square assortments. But, all the place was pervaded by a grimly ludicrous pretence that every pupil was childish and innocent. This pretence, much favoured by the lady-visitors, led to the ghastliest absurdities.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Bradley Headstone, Charley Hexam
Page Number: 215
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 2, Chapter 2 Quotes

“Talking of ideas, my Lizzie,” they were sitting side by side as they had sat at first, “I wonder how it happens that when I am work, work, working here, all alone in the summer-time, I smell flowers.”

“As a commonplace individual, I should say,” Eugene suggested languidly—for he was growing weary of the person of the house—“that you smell flowers because you do smell flowers.”

“No I don’t,” said the little creature, resting one arm upon the elbow of her chair, resting her chin upon that hand, and looking vacantly before her; “this is not a flowery neighbourhood. It’s anything but that. And yet as I sit at work, I smell miles of flowers. I smell roses, till I think I see the rose-leaves lying in heaps, bushels, on the floor.[…] I have seen very few flowers indeed, in my life.”

Related Characters: Eugene Wrayburn (speaker), Jenny Wren (speaker), Lizzie
Related Symbols: River, Dolls
Page Number: 237
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 11 Quotes

There was no sleep for Bradley Headstone on that night when Eugene Wrayburn turned so easily in his bed; there was no sleep for little Miss Peecher. Bradley consumed the lonely hours, and consumed himself in haunting the spot where his careless rival lay a dreaming; little Miss Peecher wore them away in listening for the return home of the master of her heart, and in sorrowfully presaging that much was amiss with him. Yet more was amiss with him than Miss Peecher’s simply arranged little work-box of thoughts, fitted with no gloomy and dark recesses, could hold. For, the state of the man was murderous.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Bradley Headstone, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood, Charley Hexam, Miss Peecher
Page Number: 535
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 1 Quotes

Plashwater Weir Mill Lock looked tranquil and pretty on an evening in the summer time. A soft air stirred the leaves of the fresh green trees, and passed like a smooth shadow over the river, and like a smoother shadow over the yielding grass. The voice of the falling water, like the voices of the sea and the wind, were as an outer memory to a contemplative listener; but not particularly so to Mr Riderhood, who sat on one of the blunt wooden levers of his lock-gates, dozing. Wine must be got into a butt by some agency before it can be drawn out; and the wine of sentiment never having been got into Mr Riderhood by any agency, nothing in nature tapped him.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Bradley Headstone, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 617
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 6 Quotes

He had sauntered far enough. Before turning to retrace his steps, he stopped upon the margin, to look down at the reflected night. In an instant, with a dreadful crash, the reflected night turned crooked, flames shot jaggedly across the air, and the moon and stars came bursting from the sky.

Was he struck by lightning? With some incoherent half-formed thought to that effect, he turned under the blows that were blinding him and mashing his life, and closed with a murderer, whom he caught by a red neckerchief—unless the raining down of his own blood gave it that hue.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Bradley Headstone, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood
Page Number: 682
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 10 Quotes

“But I have heard my birds sing,” cried the little creature, “and I have smelt my flowers. Yes, indeed I have! And both were most beautiful and most Divine!”

“Stay and help to nurse me,” said Eugene, quietly. “I should like you to have the fancy here, before I die.”

Related Characters: Eugene Wrayburn (speaker), Jenny Wren (speaker), Lizzie , Mortimer Lightwood, Bradley Headstone, Jenny’s Father/Mr. Dolls
Related Symbols: Dolls
Page Number: 718
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 15 Quotes

“Let go!” said Riderhood. “Stop! What are you trying at? You can’t drown Me. Ain’t I told you that the man as has come through drowning can never be drowned? I can’t be drowned.”

“I can be!” returned Bradley, in a desperate, clenched voice. “I am resolved to be. I’ll hold you living, and I’ll hold you dead. Come down!”

Riderhood went over into the smooth pit, backward, and Bradley Headstone upon him. When the two were found, lying under the ooze and scum behind one of the rotting gates, Riderhood’s hold had relaxed, probably in falling, and his eyes were staring upward. But, he was girdled still with Bradley’s iron ring, and the rivets of the iron ring held tight.

Related Characters: Bradley Headstone (speaker), Roger “Rogue” Riderhood (speaker), Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 781
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 17 Quotes

“I say,” resumes Twemlow, “if such feelings on the part of this gentleman, induced this gentleman to marry this lady, I think he is the greater gentleman for the action, and makes her the greater lady. I beg to say, that when I use the word, gentleman, I use it in the sense in which the degree may be attained by any man. The feelings of a gentleman I hold sacred, and I confess I am not comfortable when they are made the subject of sport or general discussion.” […]

Somehow, a canopy of wet blanket seems to descend upon the company, and Lady Tippins was never known to turn so very greedy or so very cross. Mortimer Lightwood alone brightens.

Related Characters: Mortimer Lightwood (speaker), Twemlow (speaker), Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, The Veneerings, Lady Tippins
Page Number: 797
Explanation and Analysis:
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Lizzie Quotes in Our Mutual Friend

The Our Mutual Friend quotes below are all either spoken by Lizzie or refer to Lizzie . For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Society, Class, and Character Theme Icon
).
Book 1, Chapter 1 Quotes

In these times of ours, though concerning the exact year there is no need to be precise, a boat of dirty and disreputable appearance, with two figures in it, floated on the Thames, between Southwark bridge which is of iron, and London Bridge which is of stone, as an autumn evening was closing in.

Related Characters: John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Lizzie , Gaffer Hexam, George Radfoot
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 13
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 1, Chapter 3 Quotes

There was a curious mixture in the boy, of uncompleted savagery, and uncompleted civilization. His voice was hoarse and coarse, and his face was coarse, and his stunted figure was coarse; but he was cleaner than other boys of his type; and his writing, though large and round, was good; and he glanced at the backs of the books, with an awakened curiosity that went below the binding. No one who can read, ever looks at a book, even unopened on a shelf, like one who cannot.

Related Characters: John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Lizzie , Mortimer Lightwood, Gaffer Hexam, Charley Hexam, Old Mr. Harmon
Page Number: 28
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 1, Chapter 14 Quotes

They ran to the rope, leaving him gasping there. Soon, the form of the bird of prey, dead some hours, lay stretched upon the shore, with a new blast storming at it and clotting the wet hair with hail-stones.

Father, was that you calling me? Father! I thought I heard you call me twice before! Words never to be answered, those, upon the earth-side of the grave. The wind sweeps jeeringly over Father, whips him with the frayed ends of his dress and his jagged hair, tries to turn him where he lies stark on his back, and force his face towards the rising sun, that he may be shamed the more.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Mortimer Lightwood, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood, Gaffer Hexam, The Inspector
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 175
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 2, Chapter 1 Quotes

It was a school for all ages, and for both sexes. The latter were kept apart, and the former were partitioned off into square assortments. But, all the place was pervaded by a grimly ludicrous pretence that every pupil was childish and innocent. This pretence, much favoured by the lady-visitors, led to the ghastliest absurdities.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Bradley Headstone, Charley Hexam
Page Number: 215
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 2, Chapter 2 Quotes

“Talking of ideas, my Lizzie,” they were sitting side by side as they had sat at first, “I wonder how it happens that when I am work, work, working here, all alone in the summer-time, I smell flowers.”

“As a commonplace individual, I should say,” Eugene suggested languidly—for he was growing weary of the person of the house—“that you smell flowers because you do smell flowers.”

“No I don’t,” said the little creature, resting one arm upon the elbow of her chair, resting her chin upon that hand, and looking vacantly before her; “this is not a flowery neighbourhood. It’s anything but that. And yet as I sit at work, I smell miles of flowers. I smell roses, till I think I see the rose-leaves lying in heaps, bushels, on the floor.[…] I have seen very few flowers indeed, in my life.”

Related Characters: Eugene Wrayburn (speaker), Jenny Wren (speaker), Lizzie
Related Symbols: River, Dolls
Page Number: 237
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 11 Quotes

There was no sleep for Bradley Headstone on that night when Eugene Wrayburn turned so easily in his bed; there was no sleep for little Miss Peecher. Bradley consumed the lonely hours, and consumed himself in haunting the spot where his careless rival lay a dreaming; little Miss Peecher wore them away in listening for the return home of the master of her heart, and in sorrowfully presaging that much was amiss with him. Yet more was amiss with him than Miss Peecher’s simply arranged little work-box of thoughts, fitted with no gloomy and dark recesses, could hold. For, the state of the man was murderous.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Bradley Headstone, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood, Charley Hexam, Miss Peecher
Page Number: 535
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 1 Quotes

Plashwater Weir Mill Lock looked tranquil and pretty on an evening in the summer time. A soft air stirred the leaves of the fresh green trees, and passed like a smooth shadow over the river, and like a smoother shadow over the yielding grass. The voice of the falling water, like the voices of the sea and the wind, were as an outer memory to a contemplative listener; but not particularly so to Mr Riderhood, who sat on one of the blunt wooden levers of his lock-gates, dozing. Wine must be got into a butt by some agency before it can be drawn out; and the wine of sentiment never having been got into Mr Riderhood by any agency, nothing in nature tapped him.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Bradley Headstone, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 617
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 6 Quotes

He had sauntered far enough. Before turning to retrace his steps, he stopped upon the margin, to look down at the reflected night. In an instant, with a dreadful crash, the reflected night turned crooked, flames shot jaggedly across the air, and the moon and stars came bursting from the sky.

Was he struck by lightning? With some incoherent half-formed thought to that effect, he turned under the blows that were blinding him and mashing his life, and closed with a murderer, whom he caught by a red neckerchief—unless the raining down of his own blood gave it that hue.

Related Characters: Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, Bradley Headstone, Roger “Rogue” Riderhood
Page Number: 682
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 10 Quotes

“But I have heard my birds sing,” cried the little creature, “and I have smelt my flowers. Yes, indeed I have! And both were most beautiful and most Divine!”

“Stay and help to nurse me,” said Eugene, quietly. “I should like you to have the fancy here, before I die.”

Related Characters: Eugene Wrayburn (speaker), Jenny Wren (speaker), Lizzie , Mortimer Lightwood, Bradley Headstone, Jenny’s Father/Mr. Dolls
Related Symbols: Dolls
Page Number: 718
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 15 Quotes

“Let go!” said Riderhood. “Stop! What are you trying at? You can’t drown Me. Ain’t I told you that the man as has come through drowning can never be drowned? I can’t be drowned.”

“I can be!” returned Bradley, in a desperate, clenched voice. “I am resolved to be. I’ll hold you living, and I’ll hold you dead. Come down!”

Riderhood went over into the smooth pit, backward, and Bradley Headstone upon him. When the two were found, lying under the ooze and scum behind one of the rotting gates, Riderhood’s hold had relaxed, probably in falling, and his eyes were staring upward. But, he was girdled still with Bradley’s iron ring, and the rivets of the iron ring held tight.

Related Characters: Bradley Headstone (speaker), Roger “Rogue” Riderhood (speaker), Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn
Related Symbols: River
Page Number: 781
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 17 Quotes

“I say,” resumes Twemlow, “if such feelings on the part of this gentleman, induced this gentleman to marry this lady, I think he is the greater gentleman for the action, and makes her the greater lady. I beg to say, that when I use the word, gentleman, I use it in the sense in which the degree may be attained by any man. The feelings of a gentleman I hold sacred, and I confess I am not comfortable when they are made the subject of sport or general discussion.” […]

Somehow, a canopy of wet blanket seems to descend upon the company, and Lady Tippins was never known to turn so very greedy or so very cross. Mortimer Lightwood alone brightens.

Related Characters: Mortimer Lightwood (speaker), Twemlow (speaker), Lizzie , Eugene Wrayburn, The Veneerings, Lady Tippins
Page Number: 797
Explanation and Analysis: