Mare’s interaction with Kilorn demonstrates that for all Mare’s high standards for herself as a friend and family member, she also holds double standards for her friendships. She is eager to sacrifice herself to help others, but does not let others do the same for her. She thinks of Kilorn’s insistence on joining the Scarlet Guard as a betrayal of all her help to him, but Mare is actually betraying the tenets of equitable friendship by being angry with Kilorn for trying to help her in return.