Again, the book emphasizes that open dialogue has to come from a place of genuine mutual respect, and Allison and Derek achieve that by building a friendship alongside their conversations. In doing so, Allison is starting to move Derek away from white nationalism, because he respects her and knows how much she disagrees with his beliefs. Separately, however, Allison remains conflicted because she knows how harmful Derek’s ideology is to other people—and how his rhetoric can spur extremists to violent action.