LitCharts assigns a color and icon to each theme in Running in the Family, which you can use to track the themes throughout the work.
Memory, History, and Story
Alcoholism
Ancestry, Homeland, and Identity
Irresponsibility in the 1920s
Colonialism
Summary
Analysis
Ondaatje’s aunt shows him the photograph he’s longed to see: the only photograph he’s seen of his parents together. They are on their honeymoon in 1932. Both are fashionably dressed and attractive, but making “hideous faces” as if they are mad. They’d made the photograph into a postcard and mailed it to various friends, captioned, “What we think of married life.” Ondaatje thinks they were “absolutely perfect for each other.”
The contrast between Mervyn and Doris’s fashionable dress and absurd, even grotesque faces suggests that they find their own lives darkly humorous, absurd in themselves. This seems to reflect the nihilism of the 1920s and reveal a mutual dark wit over which they bond.