Alix hurls this line at Emira, purportedly to shame Emira and make Emira feel bad about embarrassing her on live TV. Yet for Emira—and for the reader—it couldn’t be clearer that most of Alix’s actions have been not for Emira, but for Alix herself. Every attempt she’s made to help Emira has really been to make Alix herself look good in front of others or prove that she’s not like her elitist, problematic parents. When Emira realizes that that there’s no convincing Alix of this fact, it shows that Emira has fully come to terms with how seriously Alix’s privilege corrupts and limits her ability to assess her motivations objectively and be considerate of people who have less privilege. Emira’s parting advice to Alix is harsh, but ultimately, Emira doesn’t offer it to be cruel—she offers it for Briar’s sake, so that she might one day have a mother who takes an active interest in her life. This says a lot about Emira’s character. In this end, she makes a genuine effort to do good by Briar. And this effort is much more genuine and actionable than any attempt Alix has made to help Emira.