Again, Jessie recognizes that sex isn’t always the pinnacle of intimacy. Rather, intimacy can be more about how couples talk to each other or fight with each other. This will, hopefully, help her understand that her relationship with SN—a nonsexual form of intimacy—is just as valid as a sexual relationship would be. It’s important to note that this fight is extra unsettling for Jessie because she’s never seen a couple fight like this. She doesn’t know how to handle what she hears, and she doesn’t know whether to take Rachel seriously.