Again, May and Marcher’s first meeting in Naples must have been significant, since May remembers even small details about it. The fact that Marcher
doesn’t remember these details seems out-of-character, because even though Marcher doesn’t seem to care much about other people, he
does observe people and situations carefully. The fact that Marcher doesn’t remember any of the circumstances of his trip, including who he was with, suggests that most parts of his life aren’t worth remembering in his estimation—and yet he
does remember May. The novella seems to suggest that whatever this Naples encounter was, it was out of the ordinary for Marcher. Marcher’s contradictory desires recur here, because he seems to want to connect with May on a deeper level than just small talk, even though he’s shown little interest in connecting with anyone.