The Best We Could Do

by

Thi Bui

The Ocean Symbol Icon

The ocean represents Bui and her family’s contradictory relationship to Việt Nam and their past. First, it symbolizes the sense of isolation and danger that defines their lives for so long: Bui’s characters find themselves alone, surrounded on all sides by an interminable body of water, forced to fend for themselves and risk their lives for the sake of their freedom. This parallels the danger and crushing loneliness they feel in Việt Nam, under a series of repressive governments, the danger of their boat journey itself, and the fear and isolation they after moving to the United States, as they assimilate to a new, unknown culture.

But the ocean also symbolizes the freedom that Bui’s family seeks by escaping Việt Nam. Not only do they literally take to the ocean in their escape attempt to Malaysia, but this is the same ocean that separates Việt Nam from the United States, their old home from their new one. When she looks out upon the Pacific Ocean, Bui both remembers her family’s voyage and realizes how estranged she has become from the place of her birth. When Bố looks up at the stars on pages 248-249, the family’s isolation now means they have steered clear of persecution. And on the last page, Bui explicitly connects the ocean to freedom, autonomy, and self-invention: she depicts her son swimming in the ocean and suggests that “maybe he can be free” of her and her family’s dark past. As her son takes to the sea, too, he also gets a fresh slate.

The Ocean Quotes in The Best We Could Do

The The Best We Could Do quotes below all refer to the symbol of The Ocean. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Family, Inheritance, and Parenthood Theme Icon
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Chapter 2 Quotes

My parents escaped Việt Nam on a boat so their children could grow up in freedom.
You’d think I could be more grateful.
I am now older than my parents were when they made that incredible journey.
But I fear that around them, I will always be a child…
and they a symbol to me—two sides of a chasm, full of meaning and resentment.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Bố
Related Symbols: The Ocean
Page Number: 30
Explanation and Analysis:

Soon after that trip back to Việt Nam (our first since we escaped in 1978)…
…I began to record our family history…
thinking that if I bridged the gap between the past and the present…
…I could fill the void between my parents and me.
And that if I could see Việt Nam as a real place, and not a symbol of something lost…
…I would see my parents as real people…
and learn to love them better.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Bố
Related Symbols: The Ocean
Page Number: 36
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 3 Quotes

Though my world was small,
I would sometimes dream of being free in it.
This was my favorite dream.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Bố, Thi and Travis’s Son
Related Symbols: The Ocean
Page Number: 89-90
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 8 Quotes

We were now BOAT PEOPLE—
—five among hundreds of thousands of refugees flooding into neighboring countries, seeking asylum.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Bố, Lan, Bích
Related Symbols: The Ocean, The “Saigon Execution” Photo
Page Number: 267
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 10 Quotes

That first week of parenting was the hardest week of my life, and the only time I ever felt called upon to be HEROIC.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Bố, Travis, Thi and Travis’s Son
Related Symbols: The Ocean
Page Number: 312
Explanation and Analysis:

What has worried me since having my own child
was whether I would pass along some gene for sorrow
or unintentionally inflict damage I could never undo.
But when I look at my son, now ten years old,
I don’t see war and loss
or even Travis and me.
I see a new life, bound with mine quite by coincidence,
and I think maybe he can be free.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Thi and Travis’s Son
Related Symbols: The Ocean
Page Number: 327-329
Explanation and Analysis:
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The Ocean Symbol Timeline in The Best We Could Do

The timeline below shows where the symbol The Ocean appears in The Best We Could Do. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Chapter 2: Rewind, Reverse
Family, Inheritance, and Parenthood Theme Icon
Intergenerational Trauma Theme Icon
Memory and Perspective Theme Icon
...table, in front of the picture she is imagining, a small wooden boat in the ocean. Má answers the questions, but likes to change the subject to more “practical” matters (like... (full context)
Family, Inheritance, and Parenthood Theme Icon
Assimilation, Belonging, and Cultural Identity Theme Icon
Memory and Perspective Theme Icon
...she asks, “how did we get to such a lonely place?” Looking out over the ocean, she hopes that tracking her family’s lineage back to Việt Nam by “seeking an origin... (full context)
Chapter 5: Either, Or
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Repression and Freedom Theme Icon
Memory and Perspective Theme Icon
...Trang, where Má grows up as the beloved youngest sister. She loves swimming in the ocean and succeeds in the “EXPENSIVE!” French colonial school. She starts out reading French books, but... (full context)
Chapter 7: Heroes and Losers
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Assimilation, Belonging, and Cultural Identity Theme Icon
Repression and Freedom Theme Icon
...bring everyone up onto the deck for some fresh air. Má teaches Lan to avoid seasickness by watching the stars.  Bố is illustrated alone on the deck of the boat in... (full context)
Intergenerational Trauma Theme Icon
...realize that someone has accidentally peed in the water. Má treats Bích’s infected hand with ocean water. (full context)
Intergenerational Trauma Theme Icon
Assimilation, Belonging, and Cultural Identity Theme Icon
Repression and Freedom Theme Icon
Memory and Perspective Theme Icon
...anxiously prepares to land, but then an oar strikes Bố and knocks him into the ocean. He is shocked at first, but manages to surface and realizes he needs to swim... (full context)
Chapter 10: Ebb and Flow
Family, Inheritance, and Parenthood Theme Icon
Intergenerational Trauma Theme Icon
Assimilation, Belonging, and Cultural Identity Theme Icon
Repression and Freedom Theme Icon
Memory and Perspective Theme Icon
...damage I could never undo.” She looks out at her now-10-year-old son, playing in the ocean. He does not look like “war and loss,” but rather “a new life, bound with... (full context)