The Best We Could Do

by

Thi Bui

Memory and Perspective Theme Analysis

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Beyond its importance as a narrative of immigration and daily life in 20th-century Vietnam, The Best We Could Do is also celebrated as a pioneering work in a genre of illustrated nonfiction increasingly referred to as “graphic memoir.” Noticeably, Thi Bui did not draw comics before beginning The Best We Could Do, but rather learned the art form for this project. As she explains in her brief preface to the book, she chose the comic book medium in order to “present history in a way that is human and relatable and not oversimplified.” So it goes without saying that her drawings are central to the narrative: they express most of its emotional detail and many of its more complex storylines. But, beyond telling a different kind of story and eschewing a single perspective, the comic book format allows Bui to make a broader argument about the way history is narrated and remembered. Usually, these forces are opposed: while historical narratives claim to speak about the totality of events, memories are unique, individual, and therefore often deemed irrelevant to the “big picture” of what happened. Bui, however, argues that historical narrative and individual memory must be connected, so that history can be personalized and personal experience given its proper historical context.

The Best We Could Do cannot be understood without examining the relationship between the illustrations and the dialogue. Bui uses these illustrations to express a layer of complexity and ambiguity that cannot be adequately narrated through words. Many of the characters (especially Bui and her sisters during the family’s escape from Việt Nam) are distinguished only by their outfits: it is difficult to know who is doing what without paying attention to who consistently wears what clothing in the images. For instance, Bui often draws herself and in red when they give birth. This visual cue signals the connection between them as mothers, which points to the way Bui ultimately learns to deeply respect her mother and follow in her footsteps at the end of the book. (In a sense, when Bui gives birth and dons red, she becomes a new incarnation of her mother.)

And Bui uses visual elements to imply relationships and feelings that would distract from the linear narrative if inserted into the dialogue. For instance, on page 71, Bố’s cigarette unleashes a cloud of smoke that floats out of the panel in which he is sitting, and into the panels in which the author and her brother Tâm are playing. This meandering smoke represents the way his presence seeps into and affects his children’s lives, even though he does not usually interact with them. Many of Bui’s best-known (and arguably most powerful) illustrations from this book are uncanny images of solitude: single figures surrounded by vast expanses of ocean, empty space, smoke, etc., as on the title page within the book and pages 11, 36, 40, 41, 85, 248, 249, 323, and 329. These illustrations represent the sense of simultaneous alienation and freedom that many of the people in Bui’s family encounter as they migrate from one place to another and face uncertain futures. In all these instances, the full sense of Bui’s narrative is impossible to grasp without examining her images more closely than her words.

Just as Bui uses comic books’ hybrid form to narrate her family’s story in a “human and relatable” way that still captures its complexity, she suggests that personal experiences and historical fact should be merged to tell hybrid stories about events like the Vietnam War and its aftermath, which are simultaneously personal and global. Many critics have noted that Bui integrates a relatively extensive account of Việt Nam’s history in the 20th century into her book. Beyond the timeline she offers before the first chapter, she consistently looks at how her parents’ experiences reflected historical developments at the time and relate to the experiences of other Vietnamese people. She reminds the reader that there are endless other first-person stories like her family’s, which always lie behind the history so often learned about from a third-person, ostensibly omniscient perspective. She writes that “every casualty in war is someone’s grandmother, grandfather, mother, father, brother, sister, child, lover.”

And because any historical event encompasses endless personal narratives, Bui emphasizes, there are multiple sometimes-contradictory sides to every story. For instance, she notes that some Vietnamese people remember the fall of Sài Gòn as “Liberation Day” and others, including her family, as “The Day We Lost Our Country.” She also constantly notes that Americans learn an incomplete and biased picture about the Vietnam War—her book is, in part, intended as an alternative. But Bui also does not suggest that her parents’ memories are always correct: she recognizes that memories are fallible, and that they change through the very act of remembering. (This, she jokes, explains many of the disagreements between Má and Bố). Ultimately, then, Bui’s story does not aim to be definitive, but rather to strike down the very idea that a definitive single story can be told about historical events. By juggling words and images, personal narrative and historical fact, she emphasizes the complexity and multidimensionality of all experience, while nevertheless insisting that a reader’s responsibility is to try and get as many angles as possible on the truth.

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Memory and Perspective Quotes in The Best We Could Do

Below you will find the important quotes in The Best We Could Do related to the theme of Memory and Perspective.
Preface Quotes

I titled my project “Buis in Vietnam and America: A Memory Reconstruction.” It had photographs and some art, but mostly writing, and it was pretty academic. However, I didn’t feel like I had solved the storytelling problem of how to present history in a way that is human and relatable and not oversimplified. I thought that turning it into a graphic novel might help. So then I had to learn how to do comics! I drew the initial draft of the first pages in 2005, and it’s been a steep learning curve working in this medium.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker)
Page Number: Preface
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Chapter 2 Quotes

Soon after that trip back to Việt Nam (our first since we escaped in 1978)…
…I began to record our family history…
thinking that if I bridged the gap between the past and the present…
…I could fill the void between my parents and me.
And that if I could see Việt Nam as a real place, and not a symbol of something lost…
…I would see my parents as real people…
and learn to love them better.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Bố
Related Symbols: The Ocean
Page Number: 36
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Chapter 4 Quotes

To understand how my father became the way he was,
I had to learn what happened to him as a little boy.
It took a long time
to learn the right questions to ask.
When I did, the stories poured forth with no beginning or end—
anecdotes without shape,
wounds beneath wounds.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Bố
Page Number: 92-93
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I had never, before researching the background of my father’s stories, imagined that these horrible events were connected to my family history…

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Bố
Page Number: 116
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I grew up with the terrified boy who became my father.
Afraid of my father, craving safety and comfort.
I had no idea that the terror I felt was only the long shadow of his own.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Bố
Page Number: 128-129
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Chapter 5 Quotes

Every casualty in war is someone’s grandmother, grandfather, mother, father, brother, sister, child, lover.
In the decade of the First Indochina War, while my parents were still children learning their place in the world…
…an estimated 94,000 French soldiers died trying to reclaim France’s colony.
Three to four times as many Vietnamese died fighting them or running away from them.
This was the human cost of ending France’s colonial rule in Southeast Asia…
…and winning Việt Nam’s independence.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Bố, Bố’s Grandfather, Bố’s Grandmother
Page Number: 157
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Chapter 6 Quotes

I still have the chessboard my father made when I was a kid, and the wooden set of pieces we played with.
the CHARIOT
the ELEPHANT
the GENERAL
the COUNSELOR
the SOLDIERS
Revisiting this game of war and strategy, I think about how none of the Vietnamese people in that video have a name or a voice.
My grandparents, my parents, my sisters, and me—
—we weren’t any of the pieces on the chessboard.
We were more like ants, scrambling out of the way of giants, getting just far enough from danger to resume the business of living

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Bố, Tâm
Page Number: 185-186
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I understand why it was easier for her to not tell me these things directly, and I DID want to know.
But it still wasn’t EASY for me to swallow that my mother had been at her happiest without us.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Travis
Page Number: 191
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The contradiction in my father’s stories troubled me for a long time.
But so did the oversimplifications and stereotypes in American versions of the Vietnam War.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), Bố, The General
Related Symbols: The “Saigon Execution” Photo
Page Number: 207
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Chapter 7 Quotes

The American version of this story is one of South Vietnamese cowardice, corruption, and ineptitude…
…South Vietnamese soldiers abandoning their uniforms in the street…
…Americans crying at their wasted efforts to save a country not worth saving.
But Communist forces entered Sài Gòn without a fight, and no blood was shed.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker)
Page Number: 216
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Chapter 8 Quotes

We were now BOAT PEOPLE—
—five among hundreds of thousands of refugees flooding into neighboring countries, seeking asylum.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Bố, Lan, Bích
Related Symbols: The Ocean, The “Saigon Execution” Photo
Page Number: 267
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Chapter 9 Quotes

This—not any particular piece of Vietnamese culture—is my inheritance:
the inexplicable need and extraordinary ability to RUN when the shit hits the fan.
My Refugee Reflex.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker)
Page Number: 305
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Chapter 10 Quotes

That first week of parenting was the hardest week of my life, and the only time I ever felt called upon to be HEROIC.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Bố, Travis, Thi and Travis’s Son
Related Symbols: The Ocean
Page Number: 312
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I’m no longer a kid…am I?
Having a child taught me, certainly,
that I am not the center of the universe.
But being a child, even a grown-up one, seems to me to be a lifetime pass for selfishness.
We hang resentment onto the things our parents did to us, or the things they DIDN’T do for us…
…and in my case—
—call them by the wrong name.
To accidentally call myself Mẹ
was to slip myself into her shoes
just for a moment.
To let her be not what I want her to be
but someone independent, self-determining, and free,
means letting go of that picture of her in my head.

Related Characters: Thi Bui (speaker), , Thi and Travis’s Son
Page Number: 317-319
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