Soldiers are pursuing the Hmong to commit genocide, which forces them into life as fugitives (and, later, refugees). Meanwhile, Chue isn’t sure if she loves Bee yet, which casts further doubt on Chue’s decision to marry him. Chue’s mother’s wedding gift to her is significant because they believe that it bonds Chue and her mother’s spirits together—even on Chue and Bee’s wedding day, the focus is on familial bonds rather than romantic love. Furthermore, this gesture more generally shows how physical objects connecting people with their relatives are important in Hmong spirituality. Having to flee and leave behind their possessions is doubly stressful, since they have to worry about their losses in life
and in the afterlife.