Bee’s and Chue’s relationship is tested when Bee caves in to the patriarchal values of his culture—he feels such strong pressure to have a son that he’s considering finding a second wife. Despite this undercurrent of male-centric culture, Chue reveals herself to be strong, intelligent, and pragmatic, and she’s not afraid to leave Bee and she knows she can survive without him. By sharing this anecdote, Yang is perhaps hinting that she thinks Hmong women often handle pressure and stress better than the men do.