In addition to the hardships the family faces with language, education, and access to work, they must also constantly watch their own behavior. Bee feels immense pressure to constantly express gratitude for the chance to be living in the United States, and the children must tolerate abuse at school so as not to jeopardize their new immigrant status. Meanwhile, Bee searches for a connection with his homeland, and he worries about being far away from his relative’s graves, which he believes connect him to his ancestors’ spirits. In this way, immigrant life tests Bee’s spirituality, which adds to his emotional burden.