The Graebners live in one of the new, sprawling suburbs that Binx finds to be lacking in any apparent “soul” or identity. The Graebers’ life, or at least the brief glimpse Binx gets, seems to reflect this generic lifestyle, and old war memories have no obvious place here—meaning they struggle to connect. The visit to the Graebners also seems to confront Binx and Kate with a picture of married life they can’t imagine fulfilling themselves.