LitCharts assigns a color and icon to each theme in The Notebook, which you can use to track the themes throughout the work.
Love and Destiny
Wealth and Fulfillment
Memory, Pain, and Mortality
Comfort and Logic vs. Passion and Instinct
Summary
Analysis
While Allie sleeps in the living room, Noah goes to the kitchen to make a hearty breakfast for them both. He brings it to her, and as soon as they both finish eating, they have sex again before taking a shower together. For the rest of the morning, they wander the property together hand-in-hand, checking the land for signs of storm damage. At noon, they go inside to make lunch. While doing the dishes after the meal, there is a knock at the front door. Noah goes to answer it. When he opens the door, he is shocked to find himself face to face with Anne Nelson—Allie’s mother. Allie calls cheerfully from the kitchen, asking who’s there, and Noah tells her.
Noah and Allie’s peaceful, idyllic morning is interrupted by an intrusion from Allie’s “other” life—her real life. In having sex, Allie and Noah have made a decision with real consequences, and they do not even get to enjoy a full day of seclusion before they’re forced into a reckoning with those consequences.
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Anne, Noah, and Allie sit together at the coffee table in the living room. Allie asks how Anne found her, and Anne tells Allie that she knows her daughter better than Allie knows herself. She saw Allie’s reaction to the article about Noah weeks ago and has noticed her erratic behavior since. Anne says she has come here alone—she didn’t tell Allie’s father or Lon about her trip. Anne turns to Noah and tells him that she always liked him—she just never thought he was right for Allie. Noah says he doesn’t see how both things could be true.
This passage shows how Anne’s arrival is not about shaming Allie or dragging her back to Raleigh—it is, at least in some way, about helping to heal the mistakes of the past. Noah remains skeptical of the woman who essentially barred Allie from seeing him simply because of his socioeconomic background—he doesn’t trust the rules and regulations by which Anne lives her life.
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Anne turns to Allie and tells her that Lon called the house last night deeply concerned after being unable to get a hold of Allie for two days in a row. Anne warns Allie that Lon is on his way—and that he has everything figured out. Anne has come ahead of Lon to warn Allie, but she did not tell Lon where she suspected Allie was. Allie thanks her mother for keeping her secret.
Anne’s motivations are more complex than they initially seemed to be. Anne wants to protect Allie and give her the chance to prepare herself for Lon’s arrival and get a head start on making the enormous choice that lies before her.
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Allie asks Anne what she should do. Anne says she doesn’t know—but she encourages Allie to think long and hard about what she wants. Noah leaves the room to allow the two women to talk alone. After he is gone, Anne asks if Allie loves Noah. Allie says she does. Anne asks if Allie loves Lon. Allie says she loves Lon too, but in a very different way. Anne acknowledges the difficult decision Allie has to make and promises that no matter what Allie decides, she’ll always love her.
This passage shows that Anne supports her daughter and wants her to be happy. Anne has, perhaps, been shaken from her complacency by Allie’s bold move—she now recognizes that in order for her daughter to flourish, she must stand behind her no matter what path her life takes.
Anne reaches into her purse and retrieves a bundle of letters tied together with string—they are the letters Noah wrote to Allie. Anne has saved them all these years. Allie silently takes the letters, overwhelmed. Anne tells Allie she’s going to return to Raleigh—Allie has a big decision to make and needs space to figure things out. Anne asks Allie what she’s going to do, and Allie admits she doesn’t know. As Anne walks out of the room, Allie believes she can hear her mother whisper to her, “Follow your heart.”
As Anne returns the letters to Allie—and perhaps even urges Allie to “follow [her] heart”—it becomes clearer than ever that Anne regrets interfering in Noah and Allie’s relationship. She knows what a powerful force love is—and she wants to give Allie the chance to let her life be steered by love rather than by obligation.