Carax is unmoved by Mr. Aldaya’s determination to show off his wealth and status. He doesn’t care that he’s not getting a lavish birthday party, and even ensures that the school outcast is invited. His empathy and disdain for power set him apart from other male characters, especially Javier, who is bent on establishing himself as traditionally masculine. He’s thwarted many times at the birthday party: when his mother treats him like a little boy instead of a man, when the other guests refuse to acknowledge him as a young man of their own social circle, and when he sees the object of his affection “possessed” by another man.