Lia’s foster mom and Tom Korda’s wife. Dee is a gentle, kind person who devotes herself to caring for children. When Lia joins the Korda family, they already have five biological children and six foster children, many of whom have cognitive disabilities or mental health issues. By the time Fadiman meets her, Dee has cared for 35 foster children. Though Lia is extraordinarily difficult while living with the Kordas—crying constantly and behaving badly toward the other children—Dee grows to love her and establishes a relationship with Foua and Nao Kao, frequently inviting them over to visit their daughter and even asking them to babysit for her on occasion. She also confirms the Lees’ claim that certain drugs—tegretol and phenobarbital in particular—profoundly affect Lia in negative ways, a sentiment the Lees have been trying to communicate for a long time to no avail. After getting to know Foua and Nao Kao, Dee writes a letter to Child Protective Services insisting that Lia should return to her real home.