Needing to tend to Henry literally prevents Clare from answering Gomez’s question. Symbolically, though, this shows how Clare’s need to constantly monitor Henry’s condition prevents her from considering whether she’s truly happy in her relationship, even if her love for him is genuine and unwavering. Henry’s sad admission that the medicine Ben gave him is too debilitating for him to use during the wedding ceremony underscores the novel’s insistence on the importance of living in the moment. Even if the medication prevents Henry from time traveling, it prohibits him from fully experiencing his wedding, which is framed as just as bad.