The Time Traveler’s Wife

by

Audrey Niffenegger

The Time Traveler’s Wife: Chapter 14 Summary & Analysis

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Analysis
Sunday, October 23, 1993 (Henry is 30, Clare is 22). (6:00 a.m.). Henry wakes in a bed and breakfast in town. Richard, Henry’s grandparents, and Kimy are staying in the inn’s other rooms. It is raining heavily, which makes him wonder if he can squeeze in a needed run before the afternoon ceremony. Henry is suddenly very nervous about the wedding. He prays that he will not disappear or cause a scene of any kind, for Clare’s sake if nothing else.
Henry’s anxiety isn’t a promising sign—the novel has already established that mental unrest can trigger time-traveling episodes. And his chances of time traveling when he’s supposed to be at the wedding only increase if he’s also not able to go for a run, as a lack of exercise is another factor that can increase his chances of time traveling. 
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(7:00 a.m.). Clare wakes up on the morning of her and Henry’s wedding in her childhood bedroom. She is confused as she tries to remember the occasion for which she has visited home. She is also disoriented by a vivid dream she had the night before in which she was learning to swim as a mermaid. Once she got the hang of it, she felt she was flying underwater. In the dream, another mermaid asked her about her wedding, and she became upset because she knew she couldn’t get married until she was human again. This anxiety woke her in the middle of the night and left her lying awake for hours. Now, waking up after finally getting sleep, she remembers it is her wedding day.
Clare’s dream about being a mermaid clearly reflects her anxiety about the wedding and perhaps about a future with Henry in general. Her knowledge that she can’t marry until she’s human again perhaps gestures toward her fear that she and Henry won’t be happy unless they can exist together in the present—which isn’t ever guaranteed due to Henry’s condition.
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(7:16 a.m.). Henry realizes that he has many free hours until he needs to get ready for the ceremony at 2:00 p.m. He gets dressed and heads downstairs, where he finds Richard drinking coffee. Henry pours himself a mug as well. As Henry drinks his coffee, he observes Richard. The pale morning light highlights his haggard expression and his disorderly hair. Henry worries his hair is equally as messy, so he runs a hand over it to fix it.
It’s notable that Henry fixates on his father’s haggard expression and disorderly hair and then worries that he looks similarly disheveled—perhaps Henry sees his own future in his father’s aged appearance. Even when he’s not time traveling, many anxieties prevent Henry from fully being in the moment.
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(8:17 a.m.). Alicia comes into Clare’s room to rouse her for the day. She sings to Clare and throws off her comforter. The sisters wrestle playfully until Etta comes upstairs to chastise them. Etta explains that Philip is bothered by all the noise they are making. She tells them to get dressed and come down for breakfast, which is nearly ready. After Etta leaves, the girls listen to her footsteps heading down the stairs in silence. They are suddenly overcome with laughter.
Clare’s antics with her sister momentarily distract her from the anxiety her mermaid dream gave her earlier. While many things in Clare’s life bring her considerable stress and anxiety, her love for her family acts as a calming force that grounds her in the present.
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(8:32 a.m.). Henry notices that the weather has only gotten worse. Despite the wind, he decides to go for a run in hopes it will help abate any time traveling episodes. He runs along the shore of Lake Michigan, watching violent waves crash on the beach. Before long, he is soaked with rain. Everyone he passes seems to think he is crazy for jogging in the storm, but Henry knows it may be his only chance to prevent a time-traveling incident at the ceremony.
Clare makes many sacrifices to be with Henry, and here Henry does the same for Clare, running through a severe storm to ensure that he’s done everything in his power to prevent a time-traveling incident from ruining the wedding ceremony. He is determined to be in the here and now for the duration of this highly symbolic event.
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(8:54 a.m.). Clare goes down to the dining room for breakfast. Everyone comments on the wild weather, and Clare worries that Henry won’t be able to go running. Clare finds she is too nervous to eat. Lucille tells her she needs to be ready to get her hair and makeup done in two hours. Clare responds that she needs to make a run to town before then. Lucille offers to go with her, but Clare insists it’s something she needs to do alone.
Many people are nervous on their wedding day, but Clare has an additional unknown to contend with: there’s a high likelihood that her fiancé, through no fault of his own, will abandon her at the altar. It’s not clear what Clare needs to do in town or even if she’s telling the truth. Her claim that she needs to run the errand alone suggests it has something to do with Henry and his condition.
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(9:35 a.m.). Henry finishes his run and strips off his wet clothing in the bathroom of his hotel room. He is interrupted by a knock at the door, where he is surprised to find Clare. She is shocked that he braved the weather for a run, but Henry explains that he felt he had to in order to moderate his condition. Clare leads him to the bed. They have sex, and Clare notes that they like to do things “out of order.” Henry wonders aloud if this bothers her, but Clare assures him it doesn’t.
For Clare and Henry, being in the here and now means accepting their life as it is, even if Henry’s condition requires that they sometimes do things “out of order.” Here they enjoy physical intimacy before their wedding (conservative values like the ones Clare’s parents uphold would require the couple to abstain from sex until after the ceremony), simply to take advantage of the time they have together.
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(11:15 a.m.). Clare arrives home 15 minutes late for her hair appointment with Janice. She crosses paths with Alicia, who points out that her clothes are inside out. Clare fixes herself before going upstairs to find Janice and Lucille. While her mother is out of the room, Clare shows Janice a photo of an elaborate hairstyle she wants her to recreate. Janice says she can do it but tells Clare she’ll run out of time to do anything else. Clare is relieved that she will have to do her own makeup.
Clare’s inside-out clothing humorously suggests just how carried away in the here and now she and Henry became in the previous passage. Meanwhile, this scene further develops the tension at the heart of Clare’s relationship with her mother. It seems that she waited until Lucille was out of the room to show Janice the hairstyle because she assumed her mother would not approve of it and wanted to avoid conflict.
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(11:36 a.m.). Henry studies his tux and other accessories, which are laid out on the bed. He’s not looking forward to putting it all on. He is still cold from his run, so he goes into the bathroom to take a hot bath. From the tub, he can see the street and the fall trees. He distracts himself by smelling all the shampoos and conditioners that the hotel has provided, though they give him a headache.
Henry continues to practice self-care, taking a calming bath and sniffing pleasant-smelling shampoos and conditioners to ensure that he does everything in his power to prevent a time-traveling episode from upending his and Clare’s wedding.
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(12:35 p.m.). Janice finishes the hairstyle Clare requested. Etta is thrilled by the way Clare looks, but Lucille is frustrated that Clare’s hair is different than how she planned. After Lucille complains to Janice, Clare covertly passes her hairdresser a large tip for her help. The family helps Clare pack her wedding dress and the other remaining items in the car, then they all make their way to the church where they will finish getting ready.
Lucille’s unhappy reaction to Clare’s hair confirms why Clare waited until she was gone to request the hairstyle from Janice—it underscores the tension at the heart of their relationship. Like Clare’s love for Henry, her love for her mother is complicated and imperfect.
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(12:55 p.m.) (Henry is 38). Future Henry has time traveled to Clare’s hometown. He walks along the highway, annoyed by the terrible weather. He is underdressed and already soaked from the rain. Henry doesn’t know the year, but he makes his way to Clare’s house hoping to sneak into the basement. When he stops at a gas station, the attendant asks if he is having car trouble. Henry says his girlfriend kicked him out as he checks the paper, seeing that he has traveled back in time to his wedding day. He leaves abruptly.
It's not a great sign that an older version of Henry has traveled back in time to his wedding day—it suggests that present-Henry needs his help for some reason, which suggests that present-day Henry will (or has already) time traveled away, leaving Clare in the lurch.
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(1:42 p.m.). Clare has finished getting ready and is waiting in a classroom in the basement of the church. She admires herself in her white wedding dress. Lucille, Alicia, Charisse, Helen, and Ruth are all running around anxiously waiting for the ceremony to start. The women discuss their bridesmaids’ dresses and who will get to catch Clare’s bouquet. Helen remarks that Charisse doesn’t need it because she is already engaged; Charisse responds that she could always use extra help with Gomez.
In the novel, the color white symbolizes the hope of new beginnings. Though it’s conventional for wedding dresses to be white, Clare’s dress holds extra significance, reflecting her hope that marriage will help to bring her and Henry closer together despite the distance his condition creates between them. The superstitious belief that whoever catches the bride’s bouquet will be the next to marry resonates with the book’s theme of free will vs. determinism: though ultimately the ritual is only a tradition, it conveys some innate human drive to be more in control of one’s life and have a hand in carving out one’s future.
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(1:48 p.m.). Present-day Henry is also ready for the ceremony. He waits in a different room with Gomez, who smoking and pacing. Henry checks to make sure he has the rings, and Gomez reassures him that he does. They drink Scotch from Gomez’s flask. Henry realizes he doesn’t feel good, so he opens the window for fresh air. Outside in the bushes he sees an older version of himself. He is soaking wet but smiling.
Henry hasn’t time traveled yet, but the fact that he’s feeling unwell hints at the onset of a time-traveling episode. Seeing his future self seems to confirm this. Despite his exercise and efforts to practice mindfulness, Henry’s choice to drink alcohol with Gomez seems to have undermined Henry’s earlier attempts at self-care.
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(1:55 p.m.).  The ceremony is about to start. Clare is waiting with Philip, who knocks on the door where Henry is getting ready. Gomez comes out and asks them to wait just a little longer. When Henry emerges, he’s donned his tux, though his hair is soaked from the rain and messy. Clare can see he’s closer to 40 than he is to 30. Though the Henry is not there in the present, Clare is relieved that some version of him is.
As has happened before, a future version of Henry time travels backward in time to help present-day Henry in his hour of need. Here, an older and more responsible version of Henry rises to the occasion, ensuring that Clare won’t be left alone at the altar while present-day Henry time travels.
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Sunday, June 13, 1976 (Henry is 30). When Henry comes to, he finds himself in his childhood bedroom. It’s summer in an unknown year. Henry is frozen with frustration on the floor for a long time. When he calms down, he goes to the fridge to look for beer. He drinks several while he waits to return to his present and to the wedding.
That Henry travels backward in time to his childhood room perhaps reflects his anxiety about the wedding—symbolically, he’s regressing to childhood to avoid dealing with the stresses of his present-day life, unable to confront those challenges in the present. That Henry copes with his unexpected time-traveling episode—which drinking may have triggered in the first place—with more drinking shows that, despite the progress he’s made toward becoming a mature, responsible adult, he still has quite a ways to go.
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Saturday, October 23, 1993 (Clare is 22, Henry is 38, and 30) (2:37 p.m.). Clare and future Henry exchange vows in front of their family and friends. Internally, Clare tries to memorize the moment. The priest declares nothing can now separate them, then he pronounces them married. Clare worries that’s not true, given Henry’s condition, but she tries to push her fear out of her mind. As they walk back down the aisle, Clare chooses to be happy that they are there together.
Clare’s efforts to commit the wedding ceremony to memory reinforce the importance of being in the moment. The priest’s declaration that nothing can separate Henry and Clare doesn’t quite ring true to Clare due to Henry’s condition—time, it seems, is constantly driving a wedge between them. At the same time, though, their future together is no less certain than any “normal” couple’s: so many things in life are unknown or out of one’s control.   
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(6:26 p.m.). Older Henry drinks Scotch in the reception hall while Clare is away in another room with Lucille. Ben and Gomez join him. Henry asks Gomez to go back to the church to retrieve the younger version of himself, who will return soon. He tells Ben to keep an eye on him at the reception and to bring his clothes to Gomez when he eventually time travels back to his time. After Gomez leaves, Ben asks Henry whether or not he is still living in the future. Henry assures him that he saw him the week before; he is doing well.
Though Henry practices self-care to control his condition to the extent that he can, he also relies on the help of others, like Gomez, to make his life more manageable. It’s unclear whether Henry is answering Ben’s question honestly or is hiding the truth in order to protect him. Ben has AIDS, and at this point in time (1993) treatment options were far more limited than they are today. Though Henry’s condition allows him to see the future, he can’t change anything about it, and so all he really has control over is what information he shares and what information he withholds. 
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(7:04 p.m.). Dinner is starting, but Clare doesn’t know where Henry is. Gomez tells her that he will be there any moment, and Kimy adds that she saw Ben taking clothes to the bathroom. Clare is worried that both Henrys have disappeared, but the present version of Henry rejoins the party shortly after. He walks Kimy and Clare to their table, and Kimy whispers something to him. When Clare asks, Henry tells her that Kimy made a joke about future Henry joining Clare and him for their wedding night. 
Older Henry has clearly taken steps to ensure that his time traveling doesn’t ruin Clare’s wedding day completely—he’s made sure that all his friends are prepared to facilitate his return to the present so that Clare doesn’t have to worry about the logistics of this. Though he can’t entirely control when he time travels, he can take smaller steps to minimize certain inconveniences for Clare.
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(7:16 p.m.). Older Henry has yet to return to his time. Instead, he waits alone in another room in the reception hall, where he is eating and reading a book he found. He is hardly dressed, having given his tux back to his younger self. The manager of the venue finds him and asks him to leave. As Henry stands to go, he disappears before the manager’s eyes, arriving back in his own kitchen in 2002.
Older Henry’s choice to give his suit back to his younger self is another example of the self-care Henry practices with greater frequency as he ages. Though he can turn to others here and there, over time he learns that he is ultimately responsible for himself. 
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(7:21 p.m.). After dinner, Gomez gives a toast. His speech is an elaborate metaphor about how Henry and Clare are now sailing away from their single lives to the new land of marriage. He commends Clare’s beauty and artistic talent, and he tells Henry he is extremely lucky to have her. Gomez wishes the couple well on their matrimonial journey before raising his glass and kissing Clare on the mouth. The two share a brief look, then the party carries on.
It’s a bit of an overstep for Gomez to kiss Clare, the bride, on the mouth. Gomez has seemed protective and even possessive of Clare in the past, and perhaps this inappropriate moment of intimacy hints at a future romance between them. Though Clare’s love for Henry is strong, it remains to be seen whether Henry’s continued absences will make that love grow—or whether it will strain the relationship beyond repair.
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(8:48 p.m.). The reception is nearly over. Everyone has eaten cake, and Clare threw her bouquet, which Charisse caught. Henry dances with Helen until Gomez cuts in. Henry goes to the bar, where he watches Clare dance with Celia Attley. He and Ben have a drink. Ben wonders aloud who Celia is, and Henry explains she’s friends with Ingrid. Ben then asks Henry what is wrong with Gomez. Henry doesn’t answer, and Ben doesn’t ask any more questions. 
Ben’s question about Gomez suggests that others have noticed Gomez’s inappropriate attention toward Clare. Henry’s failure to answer Ben’s question could indicate that he’s upset about the situation and doesn’t want to talk about it. In any case, Henry’s silence suggests that there are things besides his time travel that prevent him from being in the here and now. Here, Gomez’s inappropriate behavior toward Clare distracts Henry from enjoying his wedding day. 
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(10:23 p.m.). Once the wedding is over, Clare drives herself and Henry to their motel for the night. Henry is drunk and passed out in the car, so Clare enlists the help of a motel staff member to carry him in. Once in their room, Clare undresses Henry and removes her wedding gown. As she is brushing her teeth, she is overcome with happiness that they are finally married. She kisses Henry, who is still deeply asleep, goodnight. Her happiness lasts through the night, and she is not plagued with any bad dreams.
Clare’s good night of sleep stands in stark contrast to the previous night, when she had the bad dream about being a mermaid and was therefore unable to marry Henry. Now, with herself and Henry both here in the present, she feels happy and at ease and is able to sleep peacefully. 
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Monday, October 25, 1993 (Henry is 30, Clare is 22). Back in Chicago later that week, Henry and Clare go to the courthouse to get married officially since present Henry missed the ceremony. Gomez and Charisse come along as witnesses. After, the four friends go out to dinner. Gomez asks if they plan to continue having ceremonies after this, and Clare jokingly asks if she is a bigamist for getting married twice. Charisse says it doesn’t count if you’re marrying the same person multiple times.
Henry and Clare make the most of their unconventional relationship, marrying twice (at least in Clare’s case) where many people only marry each other once. Charisse makes her comment about Clare marrying the same person multiple times in jest, but there is truth to what she says, too—even if Clare can’t always be with present-day Henry, the different versions of him that travel through time to see her are still Henry.
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