The Women

by

Kristin Hannah

The Women: Chapter 19 Summary & Analysis

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Frankie has nightmares about Vietnam so intense that she falls out of bed. She wakes disoriented. Her parents’ house reminds her of the proper lady she used to be. Frankie sits on the beach, talking to Finley. Later, she writes to Barb about the protesters at the airport and her parents’ chilly reception. Mom wakes her the next morning with a plan to fix her tired appearance. She won’t talk about Dad, who claims to still be in shock due to Frankie’s sudden reappearance. At the salon, Frankie’s usual hairdresser is visibly disgusted by her mention of serving in Vietnam. She tells the hairdresser not to give her any of “that girlie shit,” prompting Mom to scold her for using bad language.
Frankie’s nightmares demonstrate how trauma can haunt a person even after they have returned to a safe environment. Her parents’ house, while objectively safe, exacerbates her feelings of disorientation and disconnect because Frankie has changed so much since living there. In reaching out to Barb, Frankie expresses her need for solidarity with someone who understands what she’s gone through. Mom remains uninterested in Frankie’s war stories and instead tries to mold her back into the polite daughter she recognizes. Frankie discovers that mentioning in Vietnam in any context in America is likely to be met with scorn.
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Frankie and Mom have lunch at the Coronado country club. Mom drinks despite the early hour. An elderly man, Dr. Brenner, approaches the table and asks Frankie how Florence was. The sound of glass breaking startles Frankie, who falls to the floor, mistaking it for an explosion. She apologizes, telling Dr. Brenner she just returned from Vietnam, which he denies—there are no women in the war. Frankie realizes Mom and Dad lied told everyone she was studying abroad, ashamed of her service. Frankie makes a scene and storms out of the club, returning home alone. She writes to Rye about her intense fury and how she is waiting for him to come home.
The mention of Mom’s drinking is brief but suggests she is struggling to cope with something (possibly Finley’s death). The interaction with Dr. Brenner is frustrating, not only because it reveals Frankie’s parents have shamefully lied about her whereabouts, but also because Brenner himself ignorantly denies that any women serve in Vietnam. Frankie also has a Vietnam flashback while conscious, demonstrating how deeply her trauma has affected her. Frightened by this experience and deeply hurt by her parents’ shame, her emotional outburst comes as no surprise.
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Later, Frankie finds her parents in the living room, drinking and smoking. Dad looks disapproving at Frankie’s sloppy appearance. She sarcastically remarks on her studies in Florence, but he isn’t sorry for lying. Frankie helps herself to a cigarette and Mom asks when she began smoking. Frankie tells her parents about MASCALs and how smoking helped her hands stop shaking. Dad interrupts, saying no one wants to hear about Vietnam. Mom agrees—the war is over for Frankie. Frankie’s need to make them understand what she went through is overwhelming. Frankie accuses Dad of holding his son and daughter to different standards. Wondering if her parents have always been this broken, Frankie runs to the beach and screams.
Dad’s unapologetic demeanor suggests he believes he has treated Frankie fairly for failing to live up to his standards of womanhood. Neither Mom nor Dad is interested in hearing the truth of Frankie’s experiences, insisting that she repress her traumatic memories because they make everyone else uncomfortable. In wanting her parents to understand what she went through, Frankie displays a trauma survivor’s deep need for empathy and solidarity. Having this need unmet propels Frankie into anger and resentment at her parents’ sexist double standards.
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Frankie writes another letter to Rye about her parents’ refusal to listen and her traumatic nightmares. She imagines living with Rye in the country. After two weeks at home, Frankie and her parents have established an uneasy truce. When she can’t swallow her anger, Frankie turns to drinking. Waking from a dream of Mai and the orphanage in flames, Frankie calls Barb. Sensing her friend’s distress, Barb encourages Frankie to push through. She suggests throwing a party for Rye’s homecoming. The idea motivates Frankie to drive to Compton without telling her parents and meet Rye’s father at his auto repair shop. On the way, she sings along to songs she remembers from Vietnam.
Frankie reaches out to Rye for sympathy and tries to envision her life moving forward with him as a way to cope with her parents’ dismissal. Frankie also turns to alcohol to numb the lingering effects of her trauma, but nothing completely eradicates her nightmares—and this foreshadows how Frankie will begin to turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Barb’s friendship bolsters Frankie’s hope that she can rediscover in America the camaraderie and purpose she felt in Vietnam.
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Compton is impoverished and run down since the Watts riots in 1965. The neighborhood is predominantly Black and many stores, including Rye’s father’s auto repair, are out of business. Frankie understands why Rye felt uncomfortable in Coronado. Frankie tries the office door and finds Rye’s father, Stanley, watching TV. Introducing herself, Frankie starts to discuss a homecoming party for Rye. Stanley interrupts and produces a telegram he received three days prior, stating that Rye has been killed in action. Frankie takes the telegram and drives home in a state of shock.
In Compton, the reader glimpses the civil unrest which characterizes the less affluent parts of the U.S. Seeing where Rye grew up highlights Frankie’s wealth and privilege. Stanley bluntly delivers the news that Rye is dead, further traumatizing Frankie and leaving her even more unstable and unsupported in her grief.
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Frankie sits numbly in her bedroom until Mom knocks on the door. Frankie screams at her before breaking down into sobs. She tells Mom about falling in love with Rye and his death. Mom holds her. Dad appears and Mom tells him Frankie has lost a close friend. He doesn’t care. Two days later, Frankie dreams of Rye’s helicopter getting shot down over the jungle. She wakes but doesn’t know what to do with herself. Mom comes in, and Frankie hates her mother’s worried looks. She asks Mom how to stop loving Rye. Mom says it will get better over time and that Rye would want Frankie to live. Frankie finds no comfort in such platitudes.
Frankie’s support system at home is pitiful in comparison to the friends who held her up during hard times in Vietnam. Though Mom expresses genuine sympathy for her daughter’s loss, she maintains that the best thing to do is forget and move on. It is possible to infer from this that Mom, as a woman, has similarly had to repress unpleasant experiences in her own life. Dad’s petulant anger at Frankie for going to war against his wishes turns to outright dismissal and cruelty, denying Frankie support from the one person whose support she craves most.
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