Through the Looking-Glass

by

Lewis Carroll

Youth, Identity, and Growing Up Theme Analysis

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Though written several years after Alice's Adventures in Wonderland, Through the Looking-Glass picks up a mere six months after Alice's first experience in a nonsensical, dreamlike world. Now "seven and a half, exactly," Alice falls asleep one November day while playing with her kittens, climbs through the mirror over the fireplace, and finds herself in Looking-glass House and the giant chessboard surrounding it. Once Alice gets her bearings and joins the chess game—first as a pawn, but with the goal of becoming a queen—she symbolically starts to come of age and eventually reaches a version of adulthood when she's crowned queen. However, Alice's journey makes it clear that navigating childhood on the way to adulthood is a lonely process, and the end goal—adulthood—is, at best, a questionable one.

Because Through the Looking-Glass is seven-and-a-half-year-old Alice's dream, it's possible to read Alice's struggles and anxieties in Looking-glass World as reflections of her anxieties about growing up in the real world. In many cases, Through the Looking-Glass suggests that being a child and growing up are lonely states of being. The novel opens with Alice talking to her cats, Dinah, Kitty, and Snowdrop. While the narrator mentions Alice's sister at several points in passing, Alice appears to be very much alone with the cats and, eventually, with the beings that spring into existence in her mind. Even when Alice does find herself in the company of other people, she remains lonely: in Looking-glass World, Alice feels unable to voice many of her thoughts to others in an attempt to remain polite and in others' good graces. The reader, for instance, is the only one privy to the fact that figuring out how to shake hands with Tweedledee and Tweedledum is an intensely difficult experience: what if she offends one by shaking the other's hand first? Even characters who insist they're there to help her, like the Gnat or the White Knight, don't provide much support and Alice is still effectively left to her own devices to navigate the chessboard and the larger project of growing up.

The novel also suggests that reckoning with one's rapidly changing identity is a key part of growing up, even (or especially) when others aren't much help in this process. At several points, Alice has to think critically about who she is and, more broadly, what the names of things are even for. When Alice and the Gnat discuss the names of different insects, the Gnat demands to know whether the insects in Alice's world respond to their names. Upon learning that they don't, the Gnat is shocked. Alice, however, suggests that there's more to a name than referring to an individual: a name, she proposes, will help others figure out who or what something is. With this, the novel suggests that identity goes two ways: it's both something personal to an individual, and it helps other people fit that individual into their conception of the world.

Similarly, Humpty Dumpty is derisive when he learns Alice's name: in addition to declaring it "stupid," he suggests that names must mean something. According to Humpty Dumpty, his name refers to his shape, while "With a name like [Alice], [she] might be any shape, almost." To him, "Alice" tells him nothing about who the child in front of him is. This episode in particular (especially when considered alongside Alice's experience in a wood in which travelers forget all nouns, including their names) suggests that childhood is a state of potential. A child can grow up to be anything or anyone, but the novel also suggests that the results of this potential aren't always positive. After Alice leaves the wood, for instance, the Fawn who helped her heartbreakingly remembers its own identity, and consequently that it's supposed to be scared of humans like Alice. The Fawn's experience of learning its name leads to fear and isolation, a turn of events that foreshadows Alice's unsatisfying reign as queen at the end of the novel. For both Alice and the Fawn, remembering their names represents a form of self-knowledge—but in this case, that self-knowledge closes doors, rather than opening them or giving Alice more power to interpret or move through Looking-glass World.

Though Alice wants to be a queen throughout the novel, actually becoming a queen is far less rewarding than she likely anticipated. Upon crossing into the Eighth Square, Alice discovers that there's a crown on her head, signifying her royalty—but it's not comfortable, and Alice struggles to figure out how to move and balance with it. Further, Alice is denied all the food at a dinner party in her honor, and the party itself takes place under questionable circumstances: the Red Queen and the White Queen both insist that Alice is the one throwing the party, while Alice, upon arriving at the location of the party, can barely figure out how to get into the building. Taking the party as a metaphor for adulthood, Alice's experience suggests that while adulthood may look desirable to children, and while childhood may simultaneously seem anxiety-inducing and difficult, being a child might be better on a whole: upon waking, Alice happily resumes chatting to her cats with wonder and nostalgia about her time in Looking-glass World. With this, Carroll seems to suggest that part of the joy of being a child is dreaming about what adulthood might be like, without having to actually tackle the hardships and difficulties that come with the territory. Similarly, adults would do well to take adulthood less seriously and remember the joys of childhood at every opportunity.

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Youth, Identity, and Growing Up Quotes in Through the Looking-Glass

Below you will find the important quotes in Through the Looking-Glass related to the theme of Youth, Identity, and Growing Up.
Chapter 2: The Garden of Live Flowers Quotes

"They're done up close, like a dahlia," said the Tiger-lily: "not tumbled about, like yours."

"But that's not your fault," the Rose added kindly. "You're beginning to fade, you know—and then one can't help one's petals getting a little untidy."

Related Characters: Tiger-Lily (speaker), The Rose (speaker), Alice, The Red Queen
Page Number: 138
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"Where do you come from?" said the Red Queen. "And where are you going? Look up, speak nicely, and don't twiddle your fingers all the time."

Alice attended to all of these directions, and explained, as well as she could, that she had lost her way.

"I don't know what you mean by your way," said the Queen: "all the ways about here belong to me—but why did you come out here at all?" she added in a kinder tone. "Curtsey while you're thinking what to say. It saves time."

Related Characters: The Red Queen (speaker), Alice
Page Number: 140
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Chapter 3: Looking-Glass Insects Quotes

"Of course they answer to their names?" the Gnat remarked carelessly.

"I never knew them do it."

"What's the use of their having names," the Gnat said, "if they wo'n't answer to them?"

"No use to them," said Alice; "but it's useful to the people that name them, I suppose. If not, why do things have names at all?"

Related Characters: Alice (speaker), The Gnat (speaker)
Page Number: 149
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So they walked on together through the wood, Alice with her arms clasped lovingly round the neck of the Fawn, till they came out onto another open field, and here the Fawn gave a sudden bound into the air, and shook itself free from Alice's arm. "I'm a Fawn!" it cried out in a voice of delight. "And, dear me! you're a human child!" A sudden look of alarm came into its beautiful brown eyes, and in another moment it had darted away at full speed.

Alice stood looking after it, almost ready to cry with vexation at having lost her dear little fellow-traveler so suddenly.

Related Characters: The Fawn (speaker), Alice
Page Number: 154
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Chapter 4: Tweedledum and Tweedledee Quotes

"Well, it's no use your talking about waking him," said Tweedledum, "when you're only one of the things in his dream. You know very well you're not real."

"I am real!" said Alice, and began to cry.

"You wo'n't make yourself a bit realler by crying, Tweedledee remarked: "there's nothing to cry about." [...]

"I know they're talking nonsense," Alice thought to herself: "and it's foolish to cry about it."

Related Characters: Alice (speaker), Tweedledee (speaker), Tweedledum (speaker), The Red King
Page Number: 165
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Chapter 5: Wool and Water Quotes

"The prettiest are always further!" she said at last, with a sigh at the obstinacy of the rushes in growing so far off as, with flushed cheeks and dripping hair and hands, she scrambled back into her place, and began to arrange her new-found treasures.

What mattered it to her just then that the rushes had begun to fade, and to lose all their scent and beauty, from the very moment that she picked them? Even real scented rushes, you know, last only a very little while—and these, being dream-rushes, melted away almost like snow, as they lay in heaps at her feet—but Alice hardly noticed this [...]

Related Characters: Alice (speaker), The Sheep
Related Symbols: Rushes
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Page Number: 171
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Chapter 6: Humpty Dumpty Quotes

"My name is Alice, but—"

"It's a stupid name enough!" Humpty Dumpty interrupted impatiently. "What does it mean?"

"Must a name mean something?" Alice asked doubtfully.

"Of course it must," Humpty Dumpty said with a short laugh: "my name means the shape I am—a good handsome shape it is, too. With a name like yours, you might be any shape, almost."

Related Characters: Alice (speaker), Humpty Dumpty (speaker)
Page Number: 182
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"Seven years and six months!" Humpty Dumpty repeated thoughtfully. "An uncomfortable sort of age. Now if you'd asked my advice, I'd have said 'Leave off at seven'—but it's too late now."

"I never ask advice about growing," Alice said indignantly.

"Too proud?" the other enquired.

Alice felt even more indignant at this suggestion. "I mean," she said, "that one ca'n't help growing older."

"One ca'n't, perhaps," said Humpty Dumpty; "but two can. With proper assistance, you might have left off at seven."

Related Characters: Alice (speaker), Humpty Dumpty (speaker)
Page Number: 184
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"As to poetry, you know," said Humpty Dumpty, stretching out one of his great hands, "I can repeat poetry as well as other folk, if it comes to that—"

"Oh, it needn't come to that!" Alice hastily said, hoping to keep him from beginning.

"The piece I'm going to repeat," he went on without noticing her remark, "was written entirely for your amusement."

Alice felt that in that case she really ought to listen to it; so she sat down, and said "Thank you" rather sadly.

Related Characters: Alice (speaker), Humpty Dumpty (speaker)
Page Number: 189
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Chapter 7: The Lion and the Unicorn Quotes

"I always thought they were fabulous monsters!" said the Unicorn. "Is it alive?"

"It can talk," said Haigha solemnly.

The Unicorn looked dreamily at Alice, and said "Talk, child."

Alice could not help her lips curling up into a smile as she began: "Do you know, I always thought Unicorns were fabulous monsters, too? I never saw one alive before!"

"Well, now that we have seen each other," said the Unicorn, "if you'll believe in me, I'll believe in you. Is that a bargain?"

Related Characters: Alice (speaker), Haigha (speaker), The Unicorn (speaker), The White King, The Lion
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Page Number: 201
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Chapters 9-10: Queen Alice; Shaking Quotes

So she got up and walked about—rather stiffly just at first, as she was afraid that the crown might come off: but she comforted herself with the thought that there was nobody to see her, "and if I really am a Queen," she said as she sat down again, "I shall be able to manage it quite well in time."

Related Characters: Alice (speaker)
Related Symbols: Alice's Crown
Page Number: 220
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