“I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)” Introduction

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“I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)” Themes

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  Lust vs. Reason

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  Women’s Sexuality and Desire

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Line-by-Line Explanation & Analysis of “I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)”

• Lines 1-2

  I, being born a woman and distressed
  By all the needs and notions of my kind,

  

  

  

  

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• Lines 3-4

  Am urged by your propinquity to find
  Your person fair,

  

  

  

  

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• Lines 4-5

  and feel a certain zest
  To bear your body’s weight upon my breast:

  

  

  

  

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• Lines 6-8

  So subtly is the fume of life designed,
  To clarify the pulse and cloud the mind,
  And leave me once again undone, possessed.

  

  

  

  

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• Lines 9-10

  Think not for this, however, the poor treason
  Of my stout blood against my staggering brain,

  

  

  

  

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• Lines 11-12

  I shall remember you with love, or season
  My scorn with pity,—

  

  

  

  

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• Lines 12-14

  let me make it plain:
  I find this frenzy insufficient reason
  For conversation when we meet again.

  

  

  

  

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“I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)” Symbols

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  Blood

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“I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)” Poetic Devices & Figurative Language

• Caesura

  

  

  

  

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• Personification

  

  

  

  

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• Asyndeton

  

  

  

  

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“I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)” Vocabulary

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• Distressed
• Notions
• Urged
• Propinquity
• Zest
• Fume
• Clarify
• Treason
• Stout
• Staggering
• Season
• Scorn
• Frenzy
• Insufficient

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Form, Meter, & Rhyme Scheme of “I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)”

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More “I, Being born a Woman and Distressed (Sonnet 41)” Resources

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  • Italian Sonnets — Learn more about the form Millay uses in this poem: the Italian, a.k.a. Petrarchan, sonnet.

  • The Poem Out Loud — Listen to a reading of the poem.

  • The Poem to Music — Listen to the poem sung aloud in this musical adaptation.

  • Millay at Steepletop — Watch the trailer for the documentary "Millay at Steepletop."

  • Photographing the Poet — Watch a lecture on photographic representations of Millay and the poet's relationship with her public image. 

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