1If thou must love me, let it be for nought
2Except for love's sake only. Do not say
3"I love her for her smile—her look—her way
4Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought
5That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
6A sense of pleasant ease on such a day"—
7For these things in themselves, Belovèd, may
8Be changed, or change for thee,—and love, so wrought,
9May be unwrought so. Neither love me for
10Thine own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry,—
11A creature might forget to weep, who bore
12Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
13But love me for love's sake, that evermore
14Thou may'st love on, through love's eternity.
1If thou must love me, let it be for nought
2Except for love's sake only. Do not say
3"I love her for her smile—her look—her way
4Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought
5That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
6A sense of pleasant ease on such a day"—
7For these things in themselves, Belovèd, may
8Be changed, or change for thee,—and love, so wrought,
9May be unwrought so. Neither love me for
10Thine own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry,—
11A creature might forget to weep, who bore
12Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
13But love me for love's sake, that evermore
14Thou may'st love on, through love's eternity.
If thou must love me, let it be for nought
Except for love's sake only.
Do not say
"I love her for her smile—her look—her way
Of speaking gently,
—for a trick of thought
That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
A sense of pleasant ease on such a day"—
For these things in themselves, Belovèd, may
Be changed, or change for thee,—and love, so wrought,
May be unwrought so.
Neither love me for
Thine own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry,—
A creature might forget to weep, who bore
Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
But love me for love's sake, that evermore
Thou may'st love on, through love's eternity.
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Life, Work, and Letters — Watch a short talk on Elizabeth Barrett Browning's life and work—as well as on the extraordinarily romantic correspondence between the poet and her eventual husband.
Browning's Biography — A short biography and links to more of Elizabeth Barrett Browning's poems.
Browning's Artistic Philosophy — Learn more about how the poet approached her art in this essay from Brain Pickings.
Sonnets from the Portuguese — The British Library's overview of the sequence of which this poem is part.
The Poem Out Loud — Listen to a reading of the poem (with dramatic accompanying music).
The Poem Illustrated — See an illuminated version of the poem from an 1897 manuscript.