Ted Hughes's "The Other" depicts the dangers of envy, entitlement, and comparison. The speaker describes a relationship between someone who had "nothing" (referred to as "you" throughout) and a woman who had "too much." This woman's happiness and success simply made "you" all the more aware of how much you lacked, and you thus felt entitled to take "some" of everything this woman had. Seemingly never satisfied, you kept taking until the woman was left with nothing at all—leaving you with "too much." "The Other" was published in Hughes's 1990 collection Capriccio, which was inspired by his relationship with Assia Wevill. Critics take "The Other" to be about Wevill and Hughes's first wife, the famous poet Sylvia Plath, who died by suicide a few months after Hughes left her for Wevill. After Plath's death, Wevill moved into the home Plath and Hughes had bought together and helped raise Plath's children. She was haunted by Plath's memory and took her own life, in a similar manner, in 1969.
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She had too ...
... just a little.
Still she had ...
... for nature's sake.
Because her great ...
... into a basket.
Somebody, on behalf ...
... steadied the nerves.
Everything she had ...
... She had nothing.
Too late you ...
... much too much.
Only you ...
... just a little.
Select any word below to get its definition in the context of the poem. The words are listed in the order in which they appear in the poem.
The Ted Hughes Society's Review of Capriccio — A thoughtful examination of what makes Capriccio, the collection in which "The Other" was published, one of Hughes's most intriguing books.
Assia Wevill, Ted Hughes, and Sylvia Plath — An in-depth look at Wevill's background and her relationship to Ted Hughes and Sylvia Plath.
Fact vs. Fiction — This Guardian article, titled "Written out of history," examines the contradictions between the events surrounding Hughes's relationship with Wevill and the way Hughes later portrayed these events in his work.
The Poet's Life and Work — A Poetry Foundation biography of Hughes.