In “A Perfect Day for Bananafish,” everyone seems isolated from one another—especially Seymour, who appears to deliberately isolate himself by playing the piano at night and going to the beach alone. For other characters, conversations and even intimate interactions are marked by a sense of alienation and disconnect, sometimes because people refuse to empathize with one another and other times because they simply can’t understand someone else’s experiences (particularly Seymour’s traumatic experience of war). While Salinger certainly makes the case that it’s difficult to communicate with people who have such different experiences, he also makes the broader point that American culture doesn’t value empathy and understanding, which leaves people lethally isolated.
In every instance of characters trying to connect, they miss each other somehow. For instance, Muriel and her mother can’t even get in touch with each other for two days, and then when they do, they talk at each other during their whole phone call instead of mutually participating in a conversation. Muriel doesn’t take her mom’s concerns seriously (even though she should), and likewise Muriel’s mom doesn’t seem to hear Muriel’s assurances that she’s okay—essentially, they communicate nothing to each other. Even more strikingly, Muriel and Seymour never once speak throughout the whole story, showing how isolating and uncommunicative their marriage is. While on the phone with her mother, Muriel recalls how Seymour sent her a book of poetry while he was away at war, but she didn’t read it—nor does she even know where she put it. With this, Muriel gestures to the idea that their entire marriage is one of failed communication and profound disconnect.
Seymour particularly struggles with effective communication and feelings of isolation. Throughout the story, Seymour is always roaming around the resort alone, set apart from others playing piano or lying on the beach by himself, and he’s rarely seen talking to anyone. Seymour’s interaction with a little girl named Sybil is the only time in the story when he has a productive conversation, but they’re talking at a child’s level. Sybil understands Seymour’s imaginative poetic side, which is an immense pleasure to him, but she can’t relate to the other parts of him, leaving him still profoundly isolated. In contrast, Seymour’s interactions with adults are marked with odd misunderstanding and even paranoia. For instance, he’s paranoid that people are looking at his nonexistent tattoo, which might be a sort of twisted way of expressing that he thinks everyone can see that he has been changed by his experiences in the army. Additionally, his interaction in the elevator (where he thinks that a woman is staring at his feet) comes just after his inappropriate fixation on Sybil’s feet and ankles, so it seems that he assumes the woman aware of this. In both of those cases, Seymour wrongly assumes that he’s less isolated than he is—that people can know something important about him when they really can’t. In actuality, nobody understands what is tormenting Seymour, which is painful for him—and his paranoia just alienates him further. There’s so much misunderstanding, miscommunication, and isolation throughout the story that it’s hard not to read Seymour’s ultimate suicide as a final attempt to communicate something to Muriel—but it’s actually not clear what that something is. Seymour doesn’t leave a note, and Salinger is fairly ambiguous about Seymour’s motivations besides making it clear that the man is socially isolated and in mental agony.
Salinger published “A Perfect Day for Bananafish” just two years after World War II came to a close, so it’s easy to see how his consortium of characters might be reflective of post-WWII American society. Through his unempathetic, uncommunicative characters, Salinger suggests that people outside the story’s pages are similarly disconnected from one another—which, as Seymour’s fate shows, can come at a great cost. Indeed, Seymour’s suffering speaks to the disconnect that soldiers often feel when coming back from war, since few civilians understand—or even try to understand—the harrowing scenes veterans have witnessed and the trauma they’ve endured. That Seymour’s death is left vague and unexplained reads like a call to action for readers to connect deeply, communicate openly, and genuinely try to understand one another’s experiences.
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Communication and Isolation Quotes in A Perfect Day for Bananafish
“[…] He calls me Miss Spiritual Tramp of 1948,” the girl said, and giggled.
“It isn’t funny, Muriel. It isn’t funny at all. It’s horrible. It’s sad, actually. When I think how—”
“Mother,” the girl interrupted, “listen to me. You remember that book he sent me from Germany? You know—those German poems. What’d I do with it? I’ve been racking my—”
“You have it.”
“Are you sure?” said the girl.
“Certainly. That is, I have it. It’s in Freddy’s room. You left it here […] —Why? Does he want it?”
“[…] He wanted to know if it’d read it.”
“It was in German!”
“[…] He said that the poems happen to be written by the only great poet of the century. He said I should’ve bought a translation or something. Or learned the language, if you please.”
“[…] he said it was a perfect crime the Army released him from the hospital—my word of honor. He very definitely told your father there’s a chance—a very great chance, he said—that Seymour may completely lose control of himself. My word of honor.”
“[…] he asked me if Seymour’s been sick or something, So I said—”
“Why’d he ask that?”
“I don’t know, Mother. I guess because he’s so pale and all,” said the girl. “Anyway, […] His wife was horrible. You remember that awful dinner dress you saw in Bonwit’s window? The one you said you’d have to have a tiny, tiny—”
“The green?”
“She had it on. And all hips. […]”
“What’d he say though? The doctor.”
“Oh. Well, nothing much, really. I mean we were in the bar and all. It was terribly noisy.”
“Sharon Lipschutz said you let her sit on the piano seat with you,” Sybil said.
“Sharon Lipschutz said that?”
Sybil nodded vigorously.
[…] “Well,” he said, “you know how those things happen, Sybil. I was sitting there, playing. And you were nowhere in sight. And Shorn Lipschutz came over and sat down next to me. I couldn’t push her off, could I?”
“Yes.”
“Oh, no. No. I couldn’t do that […] I’ll tell you what I did do, though.”
“What?”
“I pretended she was you.”
“Do you like wax?” Sybil asked.
“Do I like what?” asked the young man.
“Wax.”
“Very much. Don’t you?”
Sybil nodded. “Do you like olives?” she asked.
“Olives—yes. Olives and wax. I never go anyplace without ‘em.”
[…]
“I like to chew candles,” she said finally.
“Who doesn’t?” said the young man […].
“Their habits are very peculiar. Very peculiar. […] They lead a very tragic life.”
“I said I see you’re looking at my feet.”
“I beg your pardon. I happened to be looking at the floor,” said the woman, and faced the doors of the car.
“If you want to look at my feet, say so,” said the young man. “But don’t be a God-damned sneak about it.”
“Let me out here, please,” the woman said quickly to the girl operating the car.
The car doors opened and the woman got out without looking back.
“I have two normal feet and I can’t see the slightest God-damned reason why anybody should stare at them,” said the young man.