July’s grievances against Maureen confirm that she has indeed infantilized and insulted him over the years, even if she hasn’t done so in such an explicit manner as calling him “boy.” When July refers to Bam as his “master,” he infuriates Maureen. Once more, Maureen demonstrates a superficial understanding of power dynamics. The term “master” triggers her because it
explicitly suggests that a master-slave/superior-subordinate dynamic exists between July and his employers. Maureen seems to believe that if her and Bam’s relationship with July is
superficially just and equitable, there is no danger of her offending or demeaning him in other, more nuanced ways. Because her family has never “thought of [him] as anything but a grown man,” she assumes that July, in turn, has never been made to feel “as anything but a grown man.” July’s complaints in this scene, however, paint a different picture and suggest that Maureen has slighted him in more ways than she knows.