Blair understands just how much damage someone like Derek could do—hinting at how much damage Derek likely already
has done in bringing other people to his side. But Blair is nonetheless willing to listen to Derek’s ideas and afford him respect, as he seems to sense that having an open dialogue is probably the most effective way to change Derek’s mind. It’s possible that Blair is able to empathize with Derek because he, too, feels ostracized—in his case, because he’s a gay man in a conservative family.