When beginning an argument, one should always consider the most appropriate tense for the argument—in fact, determining the correct tense could be considered the most important part of making an argument. Here, the best strategy for convincing one’s uncle is to situate the debate in the future, and, implicitly, the realm of choices, decisions, and uncertainties. The reason that deliberative debates are usually more productive than demonstrative debates is that people are almost always more willing to budge on their actions than on their core beliefs.