Bamidele is ’s lover from Kere village. Khadija is pregnant with Bamidele’s baby at the time of her death. Khadija and Bamidele had a relationship when they were younger but had to break it off when Khadija’s father forced her to marry . The couple resumes the relationship years later, after Khadija has trouble conceiving a male child. The women in Bamidele’s family only give birth to boys, apparently, so Khadija and Bamidele engage in a sexual relationship so that she can become pregnant with a boy and please Morufu. Bamidele’s family also believe themselves to be cursed, and the supposed curse requires pregnant women to bathe in a with a special soap to avoid dying in childbirth. and Khadija go to Kere village to find Bamidele and perform the ceremonial bath. Although Bamidele at first appears willing to help, he ultimately abandons Khadija and leaves her to die, as he now has his own pregnant wife and doesn’t want to tarnish his reputation. Bamidele’s abandonment of Khadija illustrates the unequal burden that women bear in pregnancy and childrearing.