The Son’s Veto

by

Thomas Hardy

Sophy Twycott Character Analysis

Sophy is the protagonist of “The Son’s Veto.” A working-class woman from the village of Gaymead, England, she starts out as a parlor-maid in the household of Mr. Twycott, alongside her friend Sam, the gardener. She almost marries Sam, but after they quarrel, she decides against it. While taking care of Mr. Twycott, she falls down the stairs and injures her foot for life. Soon after, Mr. Twycott asks her to marry him, and she accepts. However, Sophy struggles to fit into the upper-class London society to which her husband belongs. Her son, Randolph, becomes increasingly contemptuous of Sophy’s lower-class mannerisms, such as her imperfect use of grammar. Sophy is troubled by her relationship with her son, and she feels isolated and unhappy in this social milieu, especially after her husband’s death. As a widow, she starts up a relationship with her old friend Sam. She longs to marry him and establish a simpler, more carefree lifestyle in their old hometown. But she is torn because of the disapproval of her son, who believes that having a father-in-law of such low social standing will destroy his own reputation. Ultimately, Sophy chooses obedience to her son’s wishes over her own happiness and freedom, a choice that perhaps contributes to her premature death at the end of the story. Overall, Sophy is often a remarkably passive protagonist, with the other three male characters initiating all the major events of her life—her first near-marriage to Sam, her marriage to Mr. Twycott, her renewed relationship with Sam, and her final disappointment brought about by her son’s harsh “veto.” Throughout the story, her personality is depicted as simple and pure; she has no desire for social advancement and sees through the artificial pretensions of elite society, desiring only an honest, happy life. But because she never truly manages to break free from the constraints that have been imposed on her, always subsuming her own desires beneath the wishes of others, she never attains the simple happiness that she yearns for.

Sophy Twycott Quotes in The Son’s Veto

The The Son’s Veto quotes below are all either spoken by Sophy Twycott or refer to Sophy Twycott. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Part I Quotes

That question of grammar bore upon her history, and she fell into reverie, of a somewhat sad kind to all appearance. It might have been assumed that she was wondering if she had done wisely in shaping her life as she had shaped it, to bring out such a result as this.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 45
Explanation and Analysis:

Sophy did not exactly love him, but she had a respect for him which almost amounted to veneration. Even if she had wished to get away from him she hardly dared refuse a personage so reverend and august in her eyes, and she assented forthwith to be his wife.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Mr. Twycott
Page Number: 47
Explanation and Analysis:

Mr. Twycott knew perfectly well that he had committed social suicide by this step, despite Sophy's spotless character, and he had taken his measures accordingly.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Mr. Twycott
Page Number: 47
Explanation and Analysis:

Sophy the woman was as charming a partner as a man could possess, though Sophy the lady had her deficiencies. She showed a natural aptitude for little domestic refinements, so far as related to things and manners; but in what is called culture she was less intuitive. She had now been married more than fourteen years, and her husband had taken much trouble with her education; but she still held confused ideas on the use of ‘was’ and ‘were,’ which did not beget a respect for her among the few acquaintances she made. Her great grief in this relation was that her only child, on whose education no expense had been and would be spared, was now old enough to perceive these deficiencies in his mother, and not only to see them but to feel irritated at their existence.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Mr. Twycott
Page Number: 47
Explanation and Analysis:
Part II Quotes

Throughout these changes Sophy had been treated like the child she was in nature though not in years. She was left with no control over anything that had been her husband’s beyond her modest personal income. In his anxiety lest her inexperience should be overreached he had safeguarded with trustees all he possibly could. The completion of the boy’s course at the public school, to be followed in due time by Oxford and ordination, had been all previsioned and arranged, and she really had nothing to occupy her in the world but to eat and drink, and make a business of indolence, and go on weaving and coiling the nut-brown hair, merely keeping a home open for the son whenever he came to her during vacations.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Mr. Twycott
Related Symbols: Sophy’s Braided Hair
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

Somehow, her boy, with his aristocratic school-knowledge, his grammars, and his aversions, was losing those wide infantine sympathies, extending as far as to the sun and moon themselves, with which he, like other children, had been born, and which his mother, a child of nature herself, had loved in him; he was reducing their compass to a population of a few thousand wealthy and titled people, the mere veneer of a thousand million or so of others who did not interest him at all. He drifted further and further away from her.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

Sophy's milieu being a suburb of minor tradesmen and under-clerks, and her almost only companions the two servants of her own house, it was not surprising that after her husband's death she soon lost the little artificial tastes she had acquired from him, and became—in her son's eyes—a mother whose mistakes and origin it was his painful lot as a gentleman to blush for. As yet he was far from being man enough—if he ever would be—to rate these sins of hers at their true infinitesimal value beside the yearning fondness that welled up and remained penned in her heart till it should be more fully accepted by him, or by some other person or thing. If he had lived at home with her he would have had all of it; but he seemed to require so very little in present circumstances, and it remained stored.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

Her life became insupportably dreary; she could not take walks, and had no interest in going for drives, or, indeed, in travelling anywhere. Nearly two years passed without an event, and still she looked on that suburban road, thinking of the village in which she had been born, and whither she would have gone back—O how gladly!—even to work in the fields.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott
Related Symbols: London/Gaymead
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

“You are not happy, Mrs. Twycott, I'm afraid?” he said.

“O, of course not! I lost my husband only the year before last.”

“Ah! I meant in another way. You’d like to be home again?”

“This is my home—for life. The house belongs to me. But I understand”—She let it out then. “Yes, Sam. I long for home—our home! I should like to be there, and never leave it, and die there.” But she remembered herself. “That's only a momentary feeling. I have a son, you know, a dear boy. He's at school now.”

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Sam Hobson (speaker), Randolph Twycott
Related Symbols: London/Gaymead
Page Number: 49-50
Explanation and Analysis:

“I forgot, ma’am, that you've been a lady for so many years.”

“No, I am not a lady,” she said sadly. “I never shall be. But he's a gentleman, and that—makes it—O how difficult for me!”

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Sam Hobson (speaker), Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 50
Explanation and Analysis:
Part III Quotes

The air and Sam’s presence had revived her: her cheeks were quite pink—almost beautiful. She had something to live for in addition to her son. A woman of pure instincts, she knew there had been nothing really wrong in the journey, but supposed it conventionally to be very wrong indeed.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 50
Explanation and Analysis:

“I have a son . . . I almost fancy when I am miserable sometimes that he is not really mine, but one I hold in trust for my late husband. He seems to belong so little to me personally, so entirely to his dead father. He is so much educated and I so little that I do not feel dignified enough to be his mother . . . Well, he would have to be told.”

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 51
Explanation and Analysis:

They promenaded under the lurid July sun, this pair, so wide apart, yet so near, and Sophy saw the large proportion of boys like her own, in their broad white collars and dwarf hats, and all around the rows of great coaches under which was jumbled the debris of luxurious luncheons; bones, pie-crusts, champagne-bottles, glasses, plates, napkins, and the family silver; while on the coaches sat the proud fathers and mothers; but never a poor mother like her. If Randolph had not appertained to these, had not centred all his interests in them, had not cared exclusively for the class they belonged to, how happy would things have been!

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 51
Explanation and Analysis:

As soon as he was ordained, she argued, he would have a home of his own, wherein she, with her bad grammar and her ignorance, would be an encumbrance to him. Better obliterate her as much as possible.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 52
Explanation and Analysis:

But by indignation and contempt for her taste he completely maintained his ascendency; and finally taking her before a little cross and altar that he had erected in his bedroom for his private devotions, there bade her kneel, and swear that she would not wed Samuel Hobson without his consent. “I owe this to my father!” he said.

The poor woman swore, thinking he would soften as soon as he was ordained and in full swing of clerical work. But he did not. His education had by this time sufficiently ousted his humanity to keep him quite firm; though his mother might have led an idyllic life with her faithful fruiterer and greengrocer, and nobody have been anything the worse in the world.

Related Characters: Randolph Twycott (speaker), Sophy Twycott, Sam Hobson
Page Number: 52-53
Explanation and Analysis:

Her lameness became more confirmed as time went on, and she seldom or never left the house in the long southern thoroughfare, where she seemed to be pining her heart away. “Why mayn’t I say to Sam that I’ll marry him? Why mayn’t I?” she would murmur plaintively to herself when nobody was near.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 53
Explanation and Analysis:

Some four years after this date a middle-aged man was standing at the door of the largest fruiterer's shop in Aldbrickham. He was the proprietor, but to-day, instead of his usual business attire, he wore a neat suit of black; and his window was partly shuttered. From the railway-station a funeral procession was seen approaching: it passed his door and went out of the town towards the village of Gaymead. The man, whose eyes were wet, held his hat in his hand as the vehicles moved by; while from the mourning coach a young smooth-shaven priest in a high waistcoat looked black as a cloud at the shopkeeper standing there.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 53
Explanation and Analysis:
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Sophy Twycott Quotes in The Son’s Veto

The The Son’s Veto quotes below are all either spoken by Sophy Twycott or refer to Sophy Twycott. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Social Class vs. Human Flourishing Theme Icon
).
Part I Quotes

That question of grammar bore upon her history, and she fell into reverie, of a somewhat sad kind to all appearance. It might have been assumed that she was wondering if she had done wisely in shaping her life as she had shaped it, to bring out such a result as this.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 45
Explanation and Analysis:

Sophy did not exactly love him, but she had a respect for him which almost amounted to veneration. Even if she had wished to get away from him she hardly dared refuse a personage so reverend and august in her eyes, and she assented forthwith to be his wife.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Mr. Twycott
Page Number: 47
Explanation and Analysis:

Mr. Twycott knew perfectly well that he had committed social suicide by this step, despite Sophy's spotless character, and he had taken his measures accordingly.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Mr. Twycott
Page Number: 47
Explanation and Analysis:

Sophy the woman was as charming a partner as a man could possess, though Sophy the lady had her deficiencies. She showed a natural aptitude for little domestic refinements, so far as related to things and manners; but in what is called culture she was less intuitive. She had now been married more than fourteen years, and her husband had taken much trouble with her education; but she still held confused ideas on the use of ‘was’ and ‘were,’ which did not beget a respect for her among the few acquaintances she made. Her great grief in this relation was that her only child, on whose education no expense had been and would be spared, was now old enough to perceive these deficiencies in his mother, and not only to see them but to feel irritated at their existence.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Mr. Twycott
Page Number: 47
Explanation and Analysis:
Part II Quotes

Throughout these changes Sophy had been treated like the child she was in nature though not in years. She was left with no control over anything that had been her husband’s beyond her modest personal income. In his anxiety lest her inexperience should be overreached he had safeguarded with trustees all he possibly could. The completion of the boy’s course at the public school, to be followed in due time by Oxford and ordination, had been all previsioned and arranged, and she really had nothing to occupy her in the world but to eat and drink, and make a business of indolence, and go on weaving and coiling the nut-brown hair, merely keeping a home open for the son whenever he came to her during vacations.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Mr. Twycott
Related Symbols: Sophy’s Braided Hair
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

Somehow, her boy, with his aristocratic school-knowledge, his grammars, and his aversions, was losing those wide infantine sympathies, extending as far as to the sun and moon themselves, with which he, like other children, had been born, and which his mother, a child of nature herself, had loved in him; he was reducing their compass to a population of a few thousand wealthy and titled people, the mere veneer of a thousand million or so of others who did not interest him at all. He drifted further and further away from her.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

Sophy's milieu being a suburb of minor tradesmen and under-clerks, and her almost only companions the two servants of her own house, it was not surprising that after her husband's death she soon lost the little artificial tastes she had acquired from him, and became—in her son's eyes—a mother whose mistakes and origin it was his painful lot as a gentleman to blush for. As yet he was far from being man enough—if he ever would be—to rate these sins of hers at their true infinitesimal value beside the yearning fondness that welled up and remained penned in her heart till it should be more fully accepted by him, or by some other person or thing. If he had lived at home with her he would have had all of it; but he seemed to require so very little in present circumstances, and it remained stored.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

Her life became insupportably dreary; she could not take walks, and had no interest in going for drives, or, indeed, in travelling anywhere. Nearly two years passed without an event, and still she looked on that suburban road, thinking of the village in which she had been born, and whither she would have gone back—O how gladly!—even to work in the fields.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott
Related Symbols: London/Gaymead
Page Number: 48
Explanation and Analysis:

“You are not happy, Mrs. Twycott, I'm afraid?” he said.

“O, of course not! I lost my husband only the year before last.”

“Ah! I meant in another way. You’d like to be home again?”

“This is my home—for life. The house belongs to me. But I understand”—She let it out then. “Yes, Sam. I long for home—our home! I should like to be there, and never leave it, and die there.” But she remembered herself. “That's only a momentary feeling. I have a son, you know, a dear boy. He's at school now.”

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Sam Hobson (speaker), Randolph Twycott
Related Symbols: London/Gaymead
Page Number: 49-50
Explanation and Analysis:

“I forgot, ma’am, that you've been a lady for so many years.”

“No, I am not a lady,” she said sadly. “I never shall be. But he's a gentleman, and that—makes it—O how difficult for me!”

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Sam Hobson (speaker), Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 50
Explanation and Analysis:
Part III Quotes

The air and Sam’s presence had revived her: her cheeks were quite pink—almost beautiful. She had something to live for in addition to her son. A woman of pure instincts, she knew there had been nothing really wrong in the journey, but supposed it conventionally to be very wrong indeed.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 50
Explanation and Analysis:

“I have a son . . . I almost fancy when I am miserable sometimes that he is not really mine, but one I hold in trust for my late husband. He seems to belong so little to me personally, so entirely to his dead father. He is so much educated and I so little that I do not feel dignified enough to be his mother . . . Well, he would have to be told.”

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 51
Explanation and Analysis:

They promenaded under the lurid July sun, this pair, so wide apart, yet so near, and Sophy saw the large proportion of boys like her own, in their broad white collars and dwarf hats, and all around the rows of great coaches under which was jumbled the debris of luxurious luncheons; bones, pie-crusts, champagne-bottles, glasses, plates, napkins, and the family silver; while on the coaches sat the proud fathers and mothers; but never a poor mother like her. If Randolph had not appertained to these, had not centred all his interests in them, had not cared exclusively for the class they belonged to, how happy would things have been!

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 51
Explanation and Analysis:

As soon as he was ordained, she argued, he would have a home of his own, wherein she, with her bad grammar and her ignorance, would be an encumbrance to him. Better obliterate her as much as possible.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott
Page Number: 52
Explanation and Analysis:

But by indignation and contempt for her taste he completely maintained his ascendency; and finally taking her before a little cross and altar that he had erected in his bedroom for his private devotions, there bade her kneel, and swear that she would not wed Samuel Hobson without his consent. “I owe this to my father!” he said.

The poor woman swore, thinking he would soften as soon as he was ordained and in full swing of clerical work. But he did not. His education had by this time sufficiently ousted his humanity to keep him quite firm; though his mother might have led an idyllic life with her faithful fruiterer and greengrocer, and nobody have been anything the worse in the world.

Related Characters: Randolph Twycott (speaker), Sophy Twycott, Sam Hobson
Page Number: 52-53
Explanation and Analysis:

Her lameness became more confirmed as time went on, and she seldom or never left the house in the long southern thoroughfare, where she seemed to be pining her heart away. “Why mayn’t I say to Sam that I’ll marry him? Why mayn’t I?” she would murmur plaintively to herself when nobody was near.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott (speaker), Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 53
Explanation and Analysis:

Some four years after this date a middle-aged man was standing at the door of the largest fruiterer's shop in Aldbrickham. He was the proprietor, but to-day, instead of his usual business attire, he wore a neat suit of black; and his window was partly shuttered. From the railway-station a funeral procession was seen approaching: it passed his door and went out of the town towards the village of Gaymead. The man, whose eyes were wet, held his hat in his hand as the vehicles moved by; while from the mourning coach a young smooth-shaven priest in a high waistcoat looked black as a cloud at the shopkeeper standing there.

Related Characters: Sophy Twycott, Randolph Twycott , Sam Hobson
Page Number: 53
Explanation and Analysis: