The Stoat

by

John McGahern

Communication and Dishonesty Theme Analysis

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In “The Stoat,” the dialogue between the narrator and his father consists almost entirely of his father asking for his approval. However, because of the emotional distance between them, the narrator chooses to say what his father wants to hear rather than what he necessarily thinks. In this way, the narrator’s seeming approval of his father’s choices are actually lies by omission. For example, the narrator notes to himself that his father’s girlfriend, Miss McCabe, is frail and nervous, yet he simply says that she seems like a good person when his father asks. In addition, the narrator is only in Strandhill because his father asked him to be there. Yet he doesn’t put up a fight when his father asks if it is alright for him to go home early, abandoning Miss McCabe after her heart attack and leaving the narrator alone in Strandhill. His father’s decision deeply offends the narrator, and this outcome could arguably have been avoided if the narrator had been honest by discouraging his father’s relationship with Miss McCabe and saying no to coming to Strandhill in the first place. The story thus portrays human communication as something performative rather than genuine, as people tend to seek others’ approval rather than their honest opinions and tell others what they want to hear in lieu of telling the truth.

This tendency is further reflected in the relationship between the stoat and the rabbit that the narrator observes: the stoat only catches the rabbit when it sits down and waits for the stoat’s arrival. This behavior seems to imply that the rabbit is allowing the stoat to catch it, but actually, the rabbit does not really choose to sit down and wait for the stoat—rather, it’s exhausted itself trying to flee the stoat and can’t run any further. The narrator seems to feel like the rabbit in relationship with his father, as though being honest isn’t an option and he has no choice but to appease his father and suffer as a result.

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Communication and Dishonesty Quotes in The Stoat

Below you will find the important quotes in The Stoat related to the theme of Communication and Dishonesty.
The Stoat Quotes

I was standing over the rabbit when I saw the grey body of the stoat slithering away like a snake into the long grass. The rabbit still did not move, but its crying ceased…It did not stir when I stooped. Never before did I hold such pure terror in my hands, the body trembling in a rigidity of terror. I stilled it with a single stroke.

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father, Miss McCabe
Related Symbols: The Stoat , The Rabbit
Page Number: 152
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All night the rabbit must have raced from warren to warren, the stoat on its trail. Plumper rabbits had crossed the stoat’s path but it would not be deflected; it had marked down this one rabbit to kill. No matter how fast the rabbit raced, the stoat was still on its trail, and at last the rabbit sat down in terror and waited for the stoat to slither up and cut the vein behind the ear. I had heard it crying as the stoat was drinking its blood.

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father, Miss McCabe
Related Symbols: The Stoat , The Rabbit
Page Number: 152
Explanation and Analysis:

“Another colleague who was in Drumcondra the same year as myself has gone to his reward”

…I held up the rabbit by way of answer.

“Where did you get that?”

“A stoat was killing it on the links.”

“That’s what they do. Why did you bring it back?”

“I just brought it. The crying gave me a fright.”

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father (speaker), Miss McCabe
Related Symbols: The Stoat , The Rabbit
Page Number: 153
Explanation and Analysis:

At their age, or any age, I thought their formality strange, and I an even stranger chaperone.

“Why do you want me to come with you?” I had asked.

“It’d look more decent – proper – and I’d be grateful if you’d come. Next year you’ll be a qualified doctor with a life of your own.”

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father (speaker), Miss McCabe
Page Number: 153
Explanation and Analysis:

“Would you take it very much to heart if I decided to marry again?”

“Of course I wouldn’t. Why do you ask?”

“I was afraid you might be affronted by the idea of another woman holding the position your dear mother held.”

“Mother is dead. You should do exactly as you want to.”

“You have no objections, then?”

“None whatever”

“I wouldn’t even think of going ahead it you’d any objections.”

“Well, you can rest assured, then. I have none. Have you someone in mind?”

“No I don’t.”

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father (speaker), The Narrator’s Mother
Page Number: 153
Explanation and Analysis:

He offered me a sheet of paper on which was written in his clear, careful hand: Teacher, fifty-two. Seeks companionship. View marriage. “What do you think of it?” he asked.

“I think it’s fine.” Dismay cancelled a sudden wild impulse to roar with laughter.

“I’ll send it off, then, so.”

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father (speaker)
Page Number: 153-154
Explanation and Analysis:

“My God, if you hang round long enough you see everything.”

My uncle combed his fingers through his long greying hair. He was a distinguished man and his confidence and energy could be intimidating. “At least, if he does get married, it’ll get him off your back.”

“He’s all right,” I replied defensively. “I’m well used to him by now.”

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Uncle (speaker), The Narrator’s Father, Miss McCabe
Related Symbols: The Rabbit
Page Number: 155
Explanation and Analysis:

I met Miss McCabe in the lobby of the Ormond Hotel…They sat in front of me, very stiffly and properly, like two well-dressed, well-behaved children seeking adult approval. She was small and frail and nervous…Though old, she was like a girl, in love with being in love…

“Well, what was your impression?” he asked me when we were alone.

“I think Miss McCabe is a decent, good person,” I said uncomfortably.

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father (speaker), Miss McCabe
Page Number: 155
Explanation and Analysis:

“Do you think she has her feet on the ground?”

“I think you are very lucky to have found her,” I said. The way he looked at me told me he was far from convinced that he had been lucky.

The next morning he looked at me in a more dissatisfied manner still when a girl came from the Seaview to report that Miss McCabe had a mild turn during the night... The look on his face told me that he was more than certain now that she was not rooted enough.

“Will you come with me?”

“It is yourself she wants to see.”

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father (speaker), Miss McCabe
Page Number: 156
Explanation and Analysis:

“What are you going to do?”

“Clear out,” he said. “There is no other way.”

As if all the irons were suddenly being truly struck and were flowing from all directions to the heart of the green, I saw that my father had started to run like the poor rabbit. He would have been better off if he could have tried to understand something, even though it would get him off nothing…Because I was ashamed of him I carried everything he wanted to the car.

Related Characters: The Narrator (speaker), The Narrator’s Father (speaker), Miss McCabe
Related Symbols: The Rabbit
Page Number: 156-157
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