LitCharts assigns a color and icon to each theme in We Need to Talk About Kevin, which you can use to track the themes throughout the work.
Guilt and Accountability
Marriage, Family, and Social Norms
Nature vs. Nurture
Idealism vs. Reality
Forgiveness and Empathy
Summary
Analysis
Eva’s symptoms are caused by severe bacterial mastitis in both breasts, and she spends five days in the hospital. She finds her time in the hospital—where she is away from Kevin—a relief, even though her condition is very painful. Franklin hires a nanny for Kevin, but she quits in the middle of her first day. He hires a new nanny named Siobhan, a good-natured woman whom Eva adores. Eva eventually heals. And with Siobhan watching Kevin, Eva returns to work and feels revitalized. She looks back on her time at home with Kevin and now considers that she was crazy to accuse a baby of trying to break apart her marriage.
Perhaps Eva changes her mind about Kevin because Kevin behaves so poorly with the first nanny that she quits right away. This shows that Kevin isn’t only misbehaving around Eva. On the other hand, it doesn’t explain why Kevin always behaves better around Franklin.
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Siobhan becomes close to Franklin and Eva, but Eva notices that though Siobhan is a diligent caretaker, she doesn’t talk about Kevin much. Over time, she becomes more distant from the family, and she starts to seem disturbed. Siobhan begins to call in sick often, on which days Eva stays home with Kevin. Eva confides in Siobhan that she is unhappy with Kevin. Siobhan understands—she says that Kevin doesn’t seem to like her and that he pulls her hair to hurt her on purpose. Siobhan tells Eva that she can’t continue to watch Kevin. Eva is defeated at the news, but she offers Siobhan a job at her travel company. As Eva and Siobhan talk, Kevin awakes and screams from his crib.
The fact that Kevin’s behavior is violent and unpleasant around his nannies is evidence that he is simply biologically predisposed to these traits and that his poor behavior isn’t just a learned response to Eva’s neglect.
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Eva goes to Kevin but doesn’t comfort him. As he screams, she talks to him, swearing and telling him that he makes her miserable. Kevin is a year and a half old, and he doesn’t speak, though Siobhan says he should by now. As Eva talks to Kevin, Franklin walks in the room. He’s upset, and he tells Eva that toddlers can understand speech even if they don’t speak. Eva asks Franklin if what Siobhan told her is true—that Franklin wants to move to the suburbs. Franklin confirms, explaining that it will be good for Kevin. Eva, however, wants to stay in New York.
Later, Kevin suddenly begins to speak in full sentences, and Eva thinks this means that he could indeed understand speech well before he could speak. Thus, Kevin likely understands when Eva swears at him and blames him for her misery. Eva’s behavior is emotionally abusive, but she doesn’t seem to recognize it as such. Though Eva does own up to being a bad mother, she doesn’t seem to understand just how harmful her actions are to Kevin’s development. Franklin and Eva’s disagreement about where to live stems from their differing values—Eva loves culture and excitement while Franklin wants the domesticity of a traditional American life.